What do you think of permanently removing pubic hair?

[longgone]

Keeping in mind that quite a few males like and want pubic hair, girls would you have lasering done anyway? Guys, if you discovered that a female had had lasering done, would you continue to date her or would you dump her?

[taster]

Yuh females don't want to listen to me...maybe you listen to one of your own? ):):):

23999 katiesmuff14 days agoIt is exactly like your question states. This bare p*ssy stuff is from p*rn where they did it to give a viewer a better view of the p*ssy. Even in the adult industry the bare p**** look is disappearing and more and more girls are keeping some bush. I shaved a few times when I was younger and yea I thought at the time it was ultra sexy, but that wore off very quickly and the keeping it smooth without the itching was way too much bother. Grew some hair back and went with the premise that if you don't like it go somewhere else to get your p*ssy. No guy has ever complained, several asked why I have the hair and the vast majority actually were delighted to play with it and commented how nice it looks. I do shave my p*ssy lips as they get quite hairy and I don't think a guy needs to gobble his way through a field of brown hair to get to that tastie spot I want them at. lol

[longgone]

Never want to disfigure yourself permanently by killing your poor pubes...only a matter of time until some girl is on TV crying about how she didn't realize that some guys want & expect it and that she didn't realize that forever means forever.../:

[InquisitiveJoe]

do you ever buy the TV off the show room floor? No, its put out there for everyone to see and fondle. If she lasers she too has been putting it out there for everyone to test drive. I would look for a new model.

[saphirasilverwings]

Seriously? You're going to assume that any girl who has lasered has been with tons of guys? I hope you'll at least confirm it with her before breaking up with her over it.

[redvelvet11]

I laser there and I am a 28 year old virgin. No male has ever seen or touched down there.

[Anonymous]

I've gotten lasered and I love it! Laser hair removal does not completely removed everything, it thins out the hair. You have to go many many many times to get everything gone and then go every year for touch ups if you want the hair to be completely gone. I got laser done for me and can careless what my guy thinks. The main reason why I decided to get laser hair removal because It helps with the ingrown hairs I use to get when I shaved. Now the hair is not as thick so I do not have that problem anymore. I love it and I do not regret getting it done.

[longgone]

I am basing my assertions on this link and if what they say is true, then I would hate it and I would never marry a permanently bald female.

[saphirasilverwings]

I wouldn't, because I can't be sure I'd never want hair there. (That said, I don't even remove the hair there now, so being hairless there is obviously not a priority for me.)

[saphirasilverwings]

If you're not SO turned off by the bare look that you'll continue to date her after you've seen that she's hairless, assuming she just shaved or waxed, dumping her when you find out the hair removal is permanent (or semi-permanent) would be sort of pathetic.

[saphirasilverwings]

I think I may have said that backwards... oh well.

[longgone]

Might go something like this. She would take her pants off and I would see that she was bare and I would thin that that could be changed and when I figuered out that it couldn't then I would have to make a choice but that choice would probably not be to get hitched.

[Anonymous]

I generally shave, but I'd never get lasering done! Cause I dunno, I might want to switch it up. Gotta leave my options open, lol.

[longgone]

See that's all I have been trying to say: I want hair and you maybe prefer shaved but why do something that might be permanent when the love of your life might be severely disappointed that he could never ever experience your hair? I would probably not marry someone that had been lasered.

[Opinion Owner]

Well it's less about my partner's preference (although it does factor in) and more about like, I go through phases of having pubes and not, haha.

[longgone]

You won't go through any phases or trends if you are lasered

[Arwens-Fire]

I would never permanently remove it.And lasering it away and a guy dumping you for it?Thats ridiculous.

[longgone]

That is a good comment. So who is stupider, the laserer or the dumper?

[Arwens-Fire]

The dumper.Its a superficial worthless excuse to drop someone.The individual getting the laer surgery is obviously doing it to feel better about themselves.Ive never even heard of someone droppng another because of something like this.

[longgone]

Yeah but it could happen if a guy likes pubes then marriage really could seem like an eternity.

[saphirasilverwings]

It could happen, but that doesn't make it right.

[longgone]

I know when I grow a full beard that there will be a group of women that will not be interested in me. Girls should be aware that when they permanently remove their pubes that there will be a group of guys that will no longer want to marry them.

[saphirasilverwings]

I wouldn't like it if my boyfriend grew a beard, but I certainly wouldn't break up with him for it, especially if I knew he had it from the beginning (but only later found out it was permanent). In order to make that example work, assuming that there is some way to make a beard permanent.

[taster]

You are basically defending other females for behavior that you would not do. It's hard to come up with an example that is apples to apples but anytime one person does any action without thought to what current lover or future lover might want are looking for trouble. A vasectomy is a little more extreme but, unlike pubes, tubes might be reattached. What kind of lover puts something out of reach?

[queenofpeen]

taster, it's not about what a future partner might want. If a girl absolutely despises having pubes and knows that she isn't going to grow them out just to please a guy (just like I wouldn't start shaving all the time to please someone, because I loathe shaving), this is about body autonomy and the freedom to have your body be what YOU want it to be.

[taster]

You've got your freedom..have I got yu under lock & key...you have the freedom to turn me down for a date because I wear a beard..and I have the freedom to decline someone that is unable to grow pubic hair...

[Arwens-Fire]

So what if I wouldn't do it Taster,...i would however shave my head bald.I couldn't imagine being with someone who would drop me because I am being ME. I am currently seeing someone who could care less if I was bald down there or better yet,if I shaved my head because I am still the same person whether bald or hairy.Being that I have experienced someone like this...yes...i believe it's ridiculous iff someone drops you for something as trivial as "Pubic Hair".What a superficial society.

[taster]

Shaving has not the finality, the permanence, of lasering...so your comparison is flawed... I don't really care to have a partner that makes permanent decisions for us.

[Arwens-Fire]

It doesn't matter...it could be shaving,a tatoo...anything.And lasering does not necessarily mean that the hair is permanently gone...so your idea is flawed.As in,a friend of mine went through months of laser surgery and it's still there.But whatever,ive no reason to argue my opinion...afterall it is MY opinion.

[taster]

See I don't like tattoos either...look at all the pain & suffering that people go through to get them eradicated but the people putting them on and taking them off are happy... they are getting paid... I based my "permanence" theory on this article link Is it possible that the article is fiction...idk? I just think that it is impulsive and dumb to get something done that you may be sorry about..whether it be 5 years or 25 years

[MrOracle]

I prefer bare, but I'm perfectly happy with some growth on top and bare below, and I can work with "trimmed" if she's willing to work with me. I'd really prefer not to deal with full jungle.

Having said that, it would be difficult to imagine leaving a girl over her pubic hair, regardless of the situation.

Being lasered would only be a plus to me, though, so I may not be the audience for this question.

[AustinMan]

Date her or dump her? How about LOVING her!

[ANGELFACE---]

Aww!

[wob357]

Abso-F$%^&-ing-lutely !

[queenofpeen]

I wouldn't. I personally like having hair down there.

Who would dump a girl over her pubes (whether she has them or not)?

[GigiGigiGigi]

I'm lasered bald. Took five sessions and it was totally worth it. No sign that there was ever any hair down there whatsoever.

[jimjam87]

That's perfect. It's too bad there isn't easier way, but it does look awesome.

[KimmyB]

As long as it hurt less then waxing, I'd consider it! :o)

[longgone]

That wouldn't bother you that your lover was disappointed or even upset because there was no longer any possibilty of pubes? This will really upset some men and look at the anti-pube comments that some of the anti-pube boys make on here. I could get along with out pubes for awhile, but I will want them sooner or later.

[KimmyB]

Oh ha ha I didn't realize there were so many people who liked it better that way! Maybe I'll reconsider :oP

[longgone]

<3<3<3 =D

[kheserthorpe]

I prefer some hair, but wouldn't dump her over it. I'd just be disappointed.

[taster]

Well how disappointed? Permanent is permanent...not as bad as someone telling you could not give oral for the rest of your married life...but bad enough...these little things tend to add up over period of married years...do they not?...I mean they can shave their heads and shoot up smack if they like...but I don't like to do anything that is irreversible...

[kheserthorpe]

I don't know. Probably I'd either get used to it, or it would bug me more and more. But I don't know which :p

[taster]

Well when you are making your choice as to who you are going to share a house and bed with...gonna be in hurry to move right in with a female that says "I don't give a sh*t what males want"? What type of situation do you see in that future 15 years from now? Or how about a female that says "I don't care if he likes pubes or not...I am going to make that decision unilaterally right now...and for the rest of his married life...it is an easy decision for me...O:O

[AndiArthropod]

Funny I was just talking about that today!

Anyways my answer is no. I'm fine with waxing.

[taster]

It's a great strategy because you are doing what you wish while leaving all your options open...*John nods in approval*

[AndiArthropod]

Lol thanks

[hikinggirl]

i really don't care what guys like I care what I like and I would be worried that I would regret it later on in life. maybe I wouldn't like it to be bald anymore or something ya know?

[fallingblaze]

Lasering is too expensive I rather wax or trim

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

I'm a guy and don't give a damn either way. Don't think it's worth the money, but it's their body.

[Shiner4]

Its unsaniitary for it all to be gone. I mean it would be nice to clean up the bikini line with a laser but Id perfer to keep shaving then go thorugh that kind of pain.

[longgone]

Sure well this isn't about waxing or shaving or even touch-up by lasering..it's about permanent hair removal that the woman might regret for various reasons.

[Shiner4]

yea I mean I wouldn't laser removal all of it but only the touch up was what I was saying.

[taster]

ur cool with me...(:

[jimmydean72]

not grounds for dumping...although I lke the flexibility to ask her to grow something down there.

[longgone]

Would you marry a girl that had damaged herself?

[CasaNorba]

i don't mind. even though I do love girls who have a little hair down there. I hate bald p******. I preferred a trimmed one.

[ANGELFACE---]

What do YOU think of it? :)

[longgone]

You first. I will tell you what I think.

[ANGELFACE---]

I think its up for the person what she or he wants/likes

[longgone]

Sure anyone can do what they want. I can grow a beard and if girls don't like it that's too bad right? But it does matter what the other person thinks and any guy or gal that doesn't keep their options open has limited themselves. Can commit suicide if you liketoo; it's a free country, right?

[ANGELFACE---]

lol Dramatic much? And its not like the hair is gone forever anyway :)

[longgone]

It does not all grow back and can tale a long time link

[ANGELFACE---]

And?

[longgone]

I posted a link there. It says that you are not necessarily correct when you say "it's not like the hair is gone forever anyway"

[ANGELFACE---]

Yeaaah...and? Poit was being tht Not having hair down there is a hugggeeee deal breaker for u?

[longgone]

Now who is being dramatic? hugggeeee c'mon alotta guys on this site that like hair so why do anything permanent that might make future lovers unhappy?

[ANGELFACE---]

Lol. Sorry. You know what I mean. lol. I don't know. Because having hair down there just really makes me feel unattractive on s many levels. Why it makes me feel that way. Idk. Blme the p*rn induatry or something

[taster]

There are options other than lasering

[taster]

Permanent is permanent. Why not keep your options open? I see where 40,000 women per year are having their breast implants removed. link

[longgone]

It is truly amazing that hair on the head is attractive and yet unattractive elsewhere? Only a species as fickle as humans could figure out something like that.

[saphirasilverwings]

May I point out that hair on the head grows very differently from anywhere else. But it also has to do with what people are used to seeing.

[longgone]

Are you trying to say that people are used to seeing bare girls? Where are they seeing all this bare sex? The p*rn I watch has lots of hair and it is not my fault that they get weird or unreasonable ideas.

[saphirasilverwings]

Yes, for better or for worse, people are used to seeing bare girls... and they're DEFINITELY used to seeing bare legs and underarms, which is partly what I was referring to.

[longgone]

I am used to seeing pubes

[Charlie5612]

It doesn't make any difference to me, smooth or shaved its still going to turn a guy on

So shave away!

[Anonymous]

If I had the money, I would do lasering.

[longgone]

OK but I would not date you

[longgone]

oh and might want to read this one. link

[Opinion Owner]

Well maybe not all of it but there are areas around the p**** that is unecessary to have p**** hair. But I would def. laser my armits and legs.

[longgone]

Oh..well I would be OK with touch up.. I used to have a girlfriend with a moustache...and I understand that females are going to clean up their bikini line..also don't mind if the hair below (around labia) is removed...but I would want nice soft curls on pubic mound...my point being...laser is serious business...don't get carried away and 99% of males will go along...but pull your pants down and the guy doesn't like it that you are bare? You cannot change it for him..no matter how much you love him../:/

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't do it all over, but I'd do my bikini line

[longgone]

That would be an acceptable compromise--would prefer that you did not--but if you left the pubic mound--I could deal. (:

[Anonymous]

I would not get laser hair removal for my pubic hair! The reason being is that hair removal doesn't always work for long periods of time! I have a cousin who had hair removal and it started to grow back within a couple years. It too expensive to get it done for it to only last a year or two!

[longgone]

Doesn't it bother you at ALL that some guys don't like bare?

[Opinion Owner]

I personally do not like hair, facial pubic nothing! There are some guys who look good with it but I wouldn't date them. I personally shave if I know there might be touching involved! But yes it bothers me!

[longgone]

alright..just suppose you were my woman...if I agreed to shave for you...would you grow your hair for me?

[Opinion Owner]

sure haha! if that's what you really wanted!

[longgone]

That's cool. I would probably be willing to have my pubes the way you wanted anyway. So if you were willing to treat me to your hair, I would def be willing to get rid of mine. But not by laser. I would even consider waxing if that would make you happy.

[longgone]

want to be friends? has to come from you since you are Anonymous.

[Opinion Owner]

message me! I'll give you a hint: hey wats up?

[taster]

LOL! OK I know who this is..i will ttyl later..in the middle of writing my Christmas Letter,(:

[Opinion Owner]

:) ok! there's another question that I answered where you said you liked my comment and I just laughed!

[Anonymous]

Lasering is a great option if the girl does p*rn or modeling or something where she's constantly having to have the area hairless. Constantly having to shave or wax over and over again can be time-consuming, costly, and annoying.

Why would someone dump a girl for shallow reason like that. We're dumping people for their pubic hair now?

[longgone]

Are we dumping them or choosing not to date them in the first place? Girls choose not to date guys for all kinds of reasons: too tall, too short, wrong color hair, too bald etc...women, it seems, call these things preferences, but if males don't want a bald cooze then it's shallow?

[Opinion Owner]

You never mentioned choosing not to date them, you said dump.

[longgone]

That was probably my mistake. Dumping your partner would be more likely if they went behind his back and had it done within the relationship.

[Opinion Owner]

That's still stupid. It's not his body it's her body. My goodness, it's just hair. Would any normal person freak out and dump a girl because she got a new haircut? I hope you're not stupid enough to do something like that. Anyone who would do that is obviously only interested in the person's body rather than what's on the inside.

[longgone]

Girls refuse to date guys all the time because they have the wrong color of hair or are bald on top or for any number of "stupid' reasons. Sure it's her body so she should feel free to get tattooed to the point that she looks like a circus clown. But she needs to be aware that every time she permanently alters her body some percentage of males will no longer be interested whether that percentage be 1% or 50%.

[Opinion Owner]

I have never heard of a girl dumping a guy for dying his hair or going bald, but if I had I would say she's stupid too. Normal guys don't make a big deal over pubic hair. I hope decent girls don't date any crazies that have these pubic hair fetishes to the point where they are only interested in the hair and will dump her for it.

[longgone]

It is not a fetish. I have never had a female that was bare and it might be alright to try for awhile but I would eventually want hair again whether you believe that that is reasonable or not.

[Anonymous]

I have had laser hair removal and the thing you should realize is that it is not some sort of plastic surgery if that's what you're getting at. Plus, it does not completely 100% remove the hair - it just reduces the growth and thickness.

[longgone]

That is not what this article says.

[longgone]

link

[Anonymous]

I think it's weird when people get ride of their hair down there. Do you want to look like you're 7?! Respect your mature body and love it.

[Anonymous]

I want hair period

[Anonymous]

I do what I like. And if a guy dumps me over my pubic hair then he can go f*** himself! End of story. :D

[Anonymous]

I don't mind it

[Anonymous]

im lasered and I f***ing love it. (just for the record it will grow back very sparsely in a few yrs) but if a guy didn't like it I don't care- I did it for myself. and if he didn't want me because of that it would be his loss anyways;)

[wob357]

Outstanding !