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What does the male orgasm feel like?

If anyone is willing to give a thoughtful answer, I will gladly return the favor.
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See the comment under the answer "leatherjackets99"' gave. (the Best Answer) There, I give a description of my first orgasm. Just in case you were wondering. I cannot speak for all women, as I am only one, but I can speak for myself. :)
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I'm sorry, see the comment under "Bruce". And then see the comment under "leatherjacket99." There wasn't enough space in one comment box. Thanks!
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My first orgasm:At first, there was the shock of something entering my body. As it was pushed further in, I bit my lip to keep from shuddering. In, out, In, out. slow at first, but building in speed and in depth. My hips rocking back and forth,
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I moan to let off tension. faster, faster. I am squirming to keep myself still. My whole body pulses, radiating with bliss, and totally engulfed by the rush.. Release! liquid spews from me,
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I no longer have control. My head thrown back, I try hard to keep from screaming. I grip at my bedsheets to keep a hold on reality. Eyes fluttering, body quivering... I spasm in ecstasy as the orgasm subsides. I can no longer breath..
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and as I wash myself of my fluids, I thank my love for what I has given me. Thank you for the effort you put into this. I hope my reply was substantial. :)
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  • 1. Just before an orgasm, constant squeezing pleasure builds up above base of penis/under the belly. The squeezing gets more intense until, as the orgasm starts, it reaches its peak and spills over across the stomach and into the chest, producing a warm sensation. Duration and intensity varies from time to time, but doesn't last longer than 10 seconds.
    2. At the orgasm strikes, a magnetic wave of pressure/light fatigue washes over inside of head/chest. Starts within a second and is most intense for a couple of seconds, then slowly diminishes but remains for some time after orgasm. Not pleasurable by itself.
    3. Light warmth/static-like tingling over the surface of the whole body Comes in at the peak of the washing over sensation in 2. Slowly diminishes over some time, lasting for about 5 seconds. Not pleasurable by itself. Sometimes faint warm tingles felt along the spine as well.
    4. Concentrated, pure pleasure swells in the prostate (centre of pelvis, between rectum and bladder). Extends up in a line vertically through the centre of the body, approximately to the base of the throat. This is the main "orgasmic" sensation. The feeling begins in the centre/underside of the penis and shoots into the centre of pelvis within a couple of seconds. Varies in strength and duration each time. In a good orgasm the most intense part lasts around 5 seconds, gradually diminishing over 5-10 seconds after that. But a weak trickle of that sensation can last for longer, depending on the circumstances. The strength of this sensation defines the quality of the orgasm.
    5. Ejaculation. In the moments before orgasm, swelling/pressure builds up just at the base of penis, just above perineum and just inside the body. Strong, rhythmic contractions in perineum (under balls) and base of penis are felt within a couple of seconds after the onset of orgasm, coinciding with peak of orgasmic sensation in prostate. The strongest ones are the first 5 or so. These contractions are not inherently pleasurable in themselves: this depends on the extent of pleasure in 4.. The first 1-2 contractions are dry, then each one sends bursts of hot semen get out through the urethra, straight through the centre of the penis. There is a sense of warm relief during this, like during urination, but more stimulating because the liquid is concentrated in bursts and is thicker than urine. It's very satisfyin but not orgasmic. The strongest are the first 5 or so, but can continue for 30+ secs.

    • The sensations in the penis itself (other than ejaculation) are difficult to explain during orgasm. First of all, different parts of the penis produce different kinds of pleasure: stimulation of the top side and the head of the penis produces the constant squeezing pleasure above the base of penis and in lower stomach (1.). The underside of the penis sends pleasure to the perineum and prostate (4. & 5). If you don't stimulate the penis during orgasm, then you might sporadically feel some vague orgasmic/squeezing pleasure across its length. However, touching/stimulating it during orgasm brings intense pleasure to the points being touched, which intensifies the sensations in your other body parts. If you keep thrusting into something/pumping during orgasm, then each thrust will intensify and blend together all the above sensations (1. & 4. & 5.) into one. If you additionally time these thrusts/pumps with the ejaculatory contractions/expulsions of semen, then they will be stronger too.

    • The refractory period generally coincides with the waves of fatigue in the head/chest (2.) coming to an end (the duration of which varies from time to time). It really only affects the top part/head of penis, which become hypersensitive and painful to touch. However, the underside of the penis can still be stimulated (little known fact). It won't produce any sensation, but it can still cause contractions in base/perineum which can be satisfying if you have some drops of semen left to pump out. Every ejaculatory orgasm will include the somewhat pleasurable squeezing in 1. the wave of pressure/fatigue in 2. the warm static-like sensation in 3. and contractions/semen expulsion in 5. You will always get some pleasure from 1. However, most of the pleasure comes from 4., and when 4. is strong, pleasure in 5. is strong too. Sometimes 4 can be very weak or absent, which means the pleasure in 5 will also be weak. This depends on your mental state/arousal/etc.

  • There's a tickling I suppose, though tingling captures it better for me.

    The penis is hard, and tenses further, almost giving short spasms, in anticipation.

    Then the feeling begins below the balls, the feeling of something ready to charge, like a wall of water that's going to burst through the dam.

    My balls start to feel warm, and tight, pulling up into the sack like aircraft wheels lifting up.

    As my penis tip is feeling ever more sensitive, I can also feel the surge beginning to find its way along the shaft, which stretches out, as though trying to look over heads in a crowd.

    That's when I feel the most erect!

    Right then I feel in control, powerful, directing the surge.

    But then it starts to take over, the build up gets a head of steam, and

    I know I am going to lose it.

    I know that the moment is coming when I am no longer in charge, and become just a back seat boy as the orgasm takes over.

    That's the perfect moment - that point of losing control!

    Then the wave crashes. Sometimes I can ride it right to the shore, sometimes it's a dumper that makes me shudder as I get pounded.

    An orgasm is what I call a block out experience.

    It may not be the greatest thing there is.

    But at the time, I sure can't imagine anything better!

    I hope that gives you some idea.

    • You sorry bastard, I thought I had this one 'Nailed"........but you did a great job........Are you sure your are not a 'writer' ? If you are not, you should be......... Your writing tells me you have a formal education.......good for you. You of A ........ Anyway, that was a very good description............. BAP

    • I no longer have control. My head thrown back, I try hard to keep from screaming. I grip at my bedsheets to keep a hold on reality. Eyes fluttering, body quivering... I spasm in ecstasy as the orgasm subsides. I can no longer breath.. and as I wash myself of my fluids, I thank my love for what I has given me. Thank you for the effort you put into this. I hope my reply was substancial. :)

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  • I slow building tickle that eventually centers itself at the tip of the genitals resulting in strong muscular contractions that could probably best be described as "relief" or pressure release. This is followed by hypersensitivity of the area, a sharp fall off of our hormone level (sex drive) and an overwhelming desire to sleep.

    • That makes a lot of sense.

  • "relief" would probably be the best word, but I can't think of one in the English language that describes it any better, relief kinda hardly does it.

    right when it happens like a giant sense of joy and accomplishment(not from having sex with the girl, just general accomplishment, you know "yeaaah, aaweeessomme!")

    though I hear the female orgasm is much better, but its uncomfirmable

    what myths said is pretty accurate, sleepy part is because us guys do a lot of work, the movement uses a lot of engery imagine doing half push ups for 8-20 minutes, now bring that tired feeling into mainly your arms and waist and somewhat legs

    • I guess it goes both ways. If the woman was on top, I hope it would be better though.

  • Leatherjacket did the best description that I can imagine...You should take him to dinner for that...or somewhere...for SOMETHING ! Ya know what I mean ? !

    Well...get to it !

    Bruce

    • Haha! Seriously, I was debating you and leatherjacket for Best Answer. But he had less points. Thank you for the thought. I know that doesn't really mean anything, but my boyfriend asked me what a female orgasm felt like, and he wouldn't tell me what the male one felt like. I guess he was just shy. But, stay tuned for the question update, if you want. And yeah! Your girlfriend was right!

    • Thank you for this. My first orgasm: At first, there was the shock of something entering my body. As it was pushed further in, I bit my lip to keep from shuddering. In, out, In, out. slow at first, but building in speed and in depth. My hips rocking back and forth with pleasure. I moan to let off tension. faster, faster. I am squirming to keep myself still. My whole body pulses, radiating with bliss, and totally engulfed by the rush.. Release! liquid spews from me,

  • The orgasm has different levels, as best I can describe. I feel the 'building up" of the pressure, before the semen begins to actually 'squirt', and I can feel the semen start up my penis. (My girlfriend asked this same exact question) I notice the 'stages' most during masturbation...

    The 'shooting' or squirting sensation is a 'pulsing' or throbbing sensation as the fluid is pushed out in 'jets' much like a squirt gun, and I don't know if you have watched it or not during a guys orgasm ? I have deliberately 'delayed' my orgasm, but can still feel the semen and other fluids start to travel up my penis and can define the EXACT second that it is going to exit.

    For me personally, an orgasm is the best if I have not ejaculated in several days or at most a week...and the volume of semen is greater, and for me the more semen, the better the orgasm. The best description I can give you is that the throbbing that occurs with the 'squirting' of the semen is the best feeling a guy can have...my Girlfriend says that she has the same kind of pulsing throbbing sensation.

    I hope that is detailed and thoughtful in the way you wanted to have it explained.

    Bruce

  • A total endorphin rush that travels throughout the whole body, ending at the brain. It's a pretty mind-blowing experience, I must say.

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