What does it mean when a guy grabs your boob?

[Anonymous]

I'm a thrower on the track and field team . One day it was really cold and windy, but we still were throwing anyway . My friend and I were cuddling up in hoodies and one of the guy throwers joined us . At some point my friend walked away to throw . I told him if he kept me warm I didn't care what he did to me so he started feeling me up . Later we were in my friends car playing truth or dare . He dared me to grab his dick, and later my friend dared us to make out twice . The second time he kept feeling me up . I guess I'm a little confused . Does he like me ? Does he just want to make out with me ? Or was he just going with the flow ?

[Quackpotty]

I'm sorry to say that it looks like he was being a sleaze bag . If someone had seen that happening, it's likely he would have been in trouble for sexual harassment . If he was feeling you up and you didn't expressly tell him it was okay to do so, that's what it is . He probably took what you said to mean that, but it looks like that's all he was interested in . Was he going with the flow ? I'd say that he was wondering how far you'd let him go with you because he thought he could get away with just about anything . Is that what you wanted him to think ? He really does sound like a sleaze bucket . Get away from him as he doesn't see you for you but rather a possible body for him to grope or be groped by .

[That-Guy]

Ah, the stupid male teen . In a few years, this will be a funny awkward story that you'll tell your best girlfriends .

[Quackpotty]

I think it is a good thing that not all guys are like this . Some guys actually value girls beyond just their bodies . Find one of them rather - they'll make you feel really valued and appreciated . You can do far better than a slug like this !

[Married-in-PA]

Could be any one of these . I wish I could offer you some wisdom here . Rule of thumb is that if you offer us (guys) something, we'll take it . We're like dogs when it comes to sex . Offer us meat, and we'll always take it - it's not our fault, it's reality .

My point is, next time, TALK to your boy . Ask him "hey, do you like me, or is this all about (my breasts) or (my butt), because if it is . I don't want to be felt up" .

[ashleakate]

Sounds like he was just doing the dare and adding bits in for his own enjoyment. I don't think that meant anything. Ive got a feeling this guys just being a total sleaze. If he's gonna act like that, you shouldn't let him. Tell him to get off if your not comfortable or think he's just using you to get what he wants. Don't let yourself get used.

[missne]

It means he's an asshole and that you should kick him in the chin .

[Sara23]

Haha no! More like the balls. :]

[good-looking-geek]

Grabbing boobs is not flirting; it's disrespectful. I'm surprised you let him do it. Nothing you mentioned above means he likes you.

He grabbed your boob because it's soft and nice to feel, but it's still disrespectful. That privilege only belongs to your boyfriend (but only if you want him to). I agree with what the other 2 girls said.

[travis8888]

im so surprised by some of the questions on here. its absolutely mind boggling. its like "this guy kissed me, accidentally tripped on me and stuck his d*** in, and asked me to marry him, does he like me?" lol. yes, darling he likes you

[johnsmith2116]

I doubt it's about flow. He just doesn't have the manners to keep his hands to himself. Maybe he likes you, or maybe he doesn't, but he certainly wanted a cheap feel.

He wouldn't have felt you if he couldn't stand you, but that doesn't make it okay. If you are uncomfortable with it, you need to make it clear to him that he can't do that again.

[love84]

what is wrong about dating a guy who is so sad