I can only speak for myself, but I masturbate when I'm horny and he's not around. Sometimes I just like to have as many orgasms as I can.. just play until I'm worn out. My husband is great and has never left me in need, but he doesn't run on batteries that can be replaced when they run down, he has a job, and sometimes he actually needs to sleep. No two people have the exact same sexual wiring. It's not necessarily a matter of him not satisfying her, it could be more a matter of him not always being there when she wants to have some fun/relief/relaxation. He may not be satisfying her, but I really doubt that's the case. With it being your ex, and hearing her in the next room, it makes me wonder if she's just running the thing to get to you.
I don't know..the idea that a person shouldnt masturbate if they have someone is beyond my scope of understanding...some people believe that but I coulnt swear it off, no matter how great my guy is in bed.
I mean..I guess if it were possible that he could drop everything and be here and ready to go within 5 minutes every time I'm in the mood for it...and then be out the door again so that I can continue getting things done, then I wouldn't masturbate... but that's not realistic for either of us..wed end up spending the day and night driving back and forth and not get any work done...
I feel you here plus if you ask me all of this probably helps keep people faithful to each other. I'd much rather have my girl gettin it on with a toy rather than another guy or knowing these days even another girl.
Yup...and I'm not Catholic...lol..so I don't feel guilty about touching myself ;)
I've come to find that since most guys don't truly know what they're doing a lot of chicks keep tha toys around when the boys are out. I could be wrong but she probably likes bein wit the dude but he is just not satisfying her
You know now that I think about it this question is just like the girls question about why guys still watch porn when they have a girlfriend. Who knows maybe our reasons are the same but maybe you should check out some of those answers
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