What exactly are the "bases" in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

what is first base, second base, third base, etc? is it kissing, cuddling, making out, etc?

[Anonymous]

that always confused me

but you'll find that when you get older

it doesn't really matter which base is which

all that matters is that you got as far as you did lol

i don't even think kissing, cuddling, or making out even IS considered a base

its more physical than just those things

that sort of stuff is just like .. nothing

like if you kiss or cuddle its kinda like 'alright sooo .. then what did you do?' lol

but the whole viewing it as bases is amateur .. no offense

[laura93]

first base - french kissing

second base - groping, feeling up. going under shirts etc

third base - oral sex, hand, fingering. Just touching the other persons genitals in general

fourth base (HOME RUN) - having sex!

[iwbym]

1st- kissing

1nd- touchy feely

3rd- oral

home- I think you know, lol