What is the female perspective on the popular male fantasy of "Femdom"?

[Anonymous]

A lot of men fantasize about having a femdom mistress humiliate them. Thoughts of Strapons, forced-bi , and come eating are all over the net. Do women really want to act out this fantasy or is it just a "man thing"? If so what would you have your slave(s) do?

[PrettyBlondeGirl]

I was just reading some of the comments left on this question, and I guess I decided to add a few things. Someone asked how can guys tell whether a woman is into femdom? in real life.

To be honest with you, I don't think most women are in to femdom. Because most women want to be more of the submissive in the relationship with the guy. Those girls are looking for guys to lead in the relationship. The guys that are in to femdom, are looking for woman to dominate them, she is going to be the one that will want to lead the relationship. So she's very different, almost the opposite, of most women out there. You may not get the answer (s) your looking for, on a site like this. That's why I decided to write a little something for you.

I'll get straight to the point. In my opinion, the way that your going to find a woman that is involved in femdom, is... your not going to find her, if she is interested she'll find you. Although there are signs (that she is also in to femdom) by the way she talks to you, her appearance, how she behaves around you, especially if she's flirting with you or seducing you. There's so much more that I could say, about this topic. For me, I could spot one very quickly... I can also spot a submissive very quickly too. That could be because I am a dominatrix... at heart.

If you want more info email me, elledarlingweber@hotmail. com

[Handyman03]

Interesting

[subbihus]

Thank you Nice answer!

[pet4mermaids]

Very nicely put. My mistress has done pretty much the same.

[lord_Franz]

good thing moust womans are not into that becouse don't do that we man hate female doms there is nothing more pathetic then a man that even his woman is more man then him if i knew a guy that got his ass fucked by a girl i would lougth at his face any time i would see him, or feel very sorry for him to be so much un manly that even a female is more male then he is

[Anonymous]

I love being dominant. Especially when my man does it do me first, I do it to him, 'to punish him back'. For example, I tie him up to the bed and slap his penis until it's all red of the slapping..(yes he loves it). Or I tie him up, while he's laying on his belly and I spank him with a whip. And I used a strap on on him a few times. I would love him to ride me.

Cum eating, yeah he does that when I ask him to. He actually likes to eat his own cum, and sometimes we do it together. Or we use a cucumber and when it's covered in cum, we eat it together.

Not many guys are like this though. Not many girls like being this dominant either, so that's okay I guess.

And how I guy tell a girl is into femdom? Nothing beats a good old chat...You don't have to tell you're into it, you can also talk about it in general. Watch how she reacts and then you will surely know if she's into it or not.

[Asker]

Wow , where can I find a woman like you I don't think I'll ever look at a cucumber with ranch dressing dip the same way ever again ... LOL

[Opinion Owner]

LOL, I hope you don't mind I changed your view about cucumbers then ;p And where can you find a woman like me? Keep looking, I'm pretty sure there more women like me out there ^^

[Asker]

Im still lookin for that girl like you. I must admit I get very excited every time I read you answer to my question

[Opinion Owner]

Keep on looking they are out there..I think. I, myself haven't found any girl like me yet, but surely I can't be the only one :)!

[Asker]

I was at a friends house the other night and thought of what you told me my friends wife put out some veggies and dip, as I went to eat a piece of cucumber covered in a creamy dip I visualized you and your bf, dreaming I was in his place

[Opinion Owner]

Haha :). Great impact huh :o. Hope you liked it!

[ilovetm]

God I'd love to meet you

[lord_Franz]

lady you are sick don't do that we man hate female doms there is nothing more pathetic then a man that even his woman is more man then him if i knew a guy that got his ass fucked by a girl i would lougth at his face any time i would see him, or feel very sorry for him to be so much un manly that even a female is more male then he is and thts just sad

[paulf213]

I like dominant women - as a "real man" I really don't give a shit "what people think" - I am as happy to wear a pair of knickers to work (if my woman gets a kick out of it) as I am to tell the likes of lord_franz to meet me in the car park if he wants an opinion on my private life, I personally find these guys who like to judge themselves by their peers as more feminine to be honest - I assure you real men are too busy getting on with their own lives and making the people around them feel happy and positive to worry about what some guy does in his private life - perhaps like so many other so called real men mr lord_franz is projecting this stereotypically macho image because he's hiding something eh - usually a deep insecurity!

[curiousbeing6169]

You can make me your slave pet whom you own or manage to degrade you can hit me on mail at nonamefff6169@gmail. com

[nothingtosee]

I think that is so hot! I would like to make a couple of suggestions on how to punish him: 1. When you are riding him, and you give him permission to cum, don't let his cock go deep inside of you. Instead, only let the tip of his cock be inside of you as he's cumming. That will drive him crazy! 2. Don't let him have an orgasm for 7 days. During that time, tell him that he has to give you as many orgasms as you want, using his tongue, or making him pleasure you with a dildo or a vibrator. 3. Tie him up, and give him a very slow teasing handjob. When you finally let him cum, only stroke the tip of his cock with either one finger or two, wrapped very lightly around the tip and slowly stroking him with a very light touch as he's cumming. 4. Snowball him 5. Tie him up, blindfold him and then invite one of your girlfriends over to use him. Don't tell him that you're going to bring over a girlfriend. Also, tell him that he's not allowed to cum that night. 6. Same scenario, but this time bring a gay man over to use him. Secretly video the whole thing. After the guy leaves, tell him you've videod the whole thing and ask him if he wants to watch it. On ONE condition, after watching it, he HAS to pleasure the person who pleasured him. Also, tell him, before he answers that it might be a man or a woman! I have more. If you're interested in exchaning some emails, email me at nothingtosee at yahoo

[kateakanne]

Certain aspects of it are definitely intriguing. I personally like being more of the sub than the other way around. But every once in a while I get a good craving for some femdom. Too bad I haven't had a guy willing to let me try.

I'm not really into forced bi or come eating. But I definitely fantasize about using a strap on on a guy. Tying him up, and giving him a few smacks.

It's definitely not something I particularly like to watch though. It never something I turn on when looking for porn.

[lord_Franz]

don't do that we man hate female doms there is nothing more pathetic then a man that even his woman is more man then him if i knew a guy that got his ass fucked by a girl i would lougth at his face any time i would see him, or feel very sorry for him to be so much un manly that even a female is more male then he is

[nothingtosee]

I like your posting. If I was your boyfriend I would want to explore your fantasies. I'm primarily dominate, but I also like being submissive too. I like the idea of a woman using me for her sexual pleasure all night long, and I can't say no to any request. If you were my sub, I like the idea of driving your crazy by doing things like, tying you down, blindfolding you and then slowly licking your pussy. When you finally cum, and your clit is extremely sensitive, I wouldn't stop licking you! I like the idea of seeing what happens next? Would you experience multiple orgasms or would you be screaming for me to stop? Or would you pass out from all the attention your pussy would be getting?

[lord_Franz]

we guys hate female doms as a real straight man i can tell you that femdom disgust me specially strap on i mean if a guy want a strap on he is half way to become gay i mean a strap on regardless if its maded out of meat or rubber its still a fake cock and a cock is male sexual genitalia so a man that want strap on in his ass he is kinda gay because well he want a dick up his ass even if its a woman that put it there a cock is a cock, all so i don't think a real man should do that kind of stuff i mean its pathetic it means that this man who get pegged is so much unmanly that even his own woman who is not a man a woman is more manly then him wich is very very pathetic in my opinion. all so even the femdom themself i don't think they see it as a manly thing when a guy is a sub i mean you can't point at a guy you just saw got fucked in the ass by a woman that not even neturaly have a cock and say "ho this guy is so manly" actualy it might even be less manly then even being gay if a man is a more man then you then thats logical i mean he is a man but if a oman is more man then you then thats just sad i mean wow dud even your woman who is a woman and not man is more man then you... think how much unmanly a guy is if his female is more male then him... thats just sad with all honesty.

[LtJackass]

Talk about bitter.

[Chapter21]

Lol if you hate it so much how on earth did you find this place

[Handyman03]

Trouble is it's hard to find women who enjoy this as in general the man is ment to be more dominant one : (

[CuriousEd]

Wow... girls who fantasize about using a strap-on, or forced bi?

I'm spellbound...

[zopiter]

It is laughable concept.. We are Men. We make decisions on bed. On emotional level or physical, it is we who lead.

[terraheartnova]

Well... there are just as many freaky girls as there are guys. Lol. Big hints are daddys girls, bis, and the creative different type. Some of the quiet ones will surprise you ;) there's plenty of chicks who rock just gotta keep looking and hang in there. Shit im down. But husband is a pretty strict Christian kinda man. Lol but I have fantasties. But no real burning desire for them.

[lord_Franz]

don't give in to that fantasy don't do that we man hate female doms there is nothing more pathetic then a man that even his woman is more man then him if i knew a guy that got his ass fucked by a girl i would lougth at his face any time i would see him, or feel very sorry for him to be so much un manly that even a female is more male then he is, if you would do that to your man and any one will discover he will be the lougthing stock of all the guys.

[LtJackass]

@terra kinky for women seems to predominantly mean being dominated in unusual ways. But other than that I agree.

[alexmen]

..and how can guys tell whether a woman is into femdom? in real life it seems noone does...

[briannasewfine]

I love being pegged

[Anonymous]

It's a huge fantasy and is go all in. I'd live to be penetrated and penetrate her and clean my mess. I guess if she wanted to see me take a dick is do that too. Have her keep me I a chastity device the whole time. HOT

[Anonymous]

I usually like to be the dominated one. But sometimes I do fantasize about using a strapon or forced-bi.

[lord_Franz]

don't do that fantasy girl we man hate female doms there is nothing more pathetic then a man that even his woman is more man then him if i knew a guy that got his ass fucked by a girl i would lougth at his face any time i would see him, or feel very sorry for him to be so much un manly that even a female is more male then he is

[curiousbeing6169]

You can hit me on mail at nonamefff6169@gmail. com I am natural submissive guy

[nothingtosee]

That's a really hot fantasy! I'm usually dominate, but sometimes I like being submissive and having a woman use me for her sexual pleasure all night long. I like the idea of not knowing if she's going to make me do something that is naughty, kinky or taboo. The best part, what ever she suggests, I can't say no. I also love it when she tells me that if I want to cum, I have to ask for permission. That way she controls everything that night. I would love to hear ALL of your fantasies. If you're interested, write me at nothingtosee at yahoo.

[Anonymous]

I don't like the whole idea of the woman being dominant. But maybe it's just me; I'm bisexual, and I would want to be the 'weaker' in both situations.

Some women like it, but I'm not one of them.

[lord_Franz]

you right we man hate female doms there is nothing more pathetic then a man that even his woman is more man then him if i knew a guy that got his ass fucked by a girl i would lougth at his face any time i would see him, or feel very sorry for him to be so much un manly that even a female is more male then he is

[nothingtosee]

Oh, I think it would be hot to tie you down, blindfold you and then bring in another woman so the two of us could have our way with you. The whole time you wouldn't know if it's a man or a woman! I like the idea of making you ask for permission to cum, or giving you a ruined orgasm or torturing you long after you cum by either licking or slowly stroking your clit. Or forcing you to confess all of your kinkiest sexual fantasies while the two of us play with you.

[Anonymous]

I would like to dominate my man, but he's scared. I even bought an under the bed restraint system.. Its awesome, but still unused:( I think that both men and women have these fantasies, but not all of them.. I do not want to wear a strapon though, and if he wanted me to I think I may be a bit disturbed by it.. But what is "come eating" ?

[Asker]

Cum eating is making your man eat / swallow his own semen

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, that's gross lol

[alexmen]

..and how can guys tell whether a woman is into femdom? in real life it seems noone does....

[CuriousEd]

Well, come eating doesn't have to be that blatant... I mean, yeah, it can be something like forcing him to masturbate and then lick it up. But it can also be more sensual and erotic, while still reminding him that you are in control... like a snowball, or a creampie...

[Handyman03]

I'd like it he he

[lord_Franz]

don't do that we man hate female doms there is nothing more pathetic then a man that even his woman is more man then him if i knew a guy that got his ass fucked by a girl i would lougth at his face any time i would see him, or feel very sorry for him to be so much un manly that even a female is more male then he is.

[nothingtosee]

Oh I think it's a shame your boyfriend is scared about you dominating him. For me, it's hot when a woman will use me for her sexual pleasure all night long.