I would say her mind, and her sense of intimacy. The mind, and fantasy, and expectations, being 'stimulated' is the most erotic for either gender.
Ambiguous, non-specific, yeah, ok!!
I start with the EASY route: Her taste-buds, with an amazing dinner, as the lead-in.
When I am serious, with a woman, I invite her for a special evening dinner, her favorite 'whatever' food, and I always add a unique twist, fusing it with other things she loves, or contrasting the different stages with spicy then sweet, then savory. . .
Engaging the 'non-sexual', but SENSATION organs (taste, smell) makes the experience more erotic, more sensual, arousing the sexual desire!
The textures of the food can be an arousing stimulus, from the solid, hard, cheese, with the savory, satisfying 'fat', to the wine, with the fruity flavors that pair with the cheese.
A dish that you can feed, to each other, sensually, with chop-sticks is also unexpectedly exciting!
That can work for the vegetarians, but what about the CARNIVORES, that love the steaks!!
Seasoning is the key!! Women smell much better than men, so seasoning, just simple salt and pepper, and a little hint of sage, or thyme, depending on what she likes!
A true Grill Master can make an AMAZING Hanger Steak stir-fry with grilled peppers and onions, and serve it over something like Ramen noodles, or sticky rice!!
Use your imagination, and remember that your mind is your MOST EROTIC organ!!0 0 0 0Whoever you're dating is a lucky woman!
It depends how far along you are. If she's already excited the clitoris but if she's not that can be unpleasant. Genrally the more excited a woman gets the more and rougher stimulation you want to apply.
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The clitoris. Most women can't even active orgasm from penetration alone. There has to be some other kind of stimulation for them to finish. However I have also heard that some women don't like that kind of stimulation because it may be too sensitive. More nerve endings come together there then anywhere else on a woman's body. That's why there is so much sensation. (Yes I know I'm 14. I'm not a slut, I just watch buzzfeed. Don't judge.)
0 0 0 1It depends on each woman. Apart from the vagina of course, every woman has a different sensitive part of the body. Mine would be either my wrists, my hips or the back of my neck.
0 0 0 0i think neck would be more
Ear lobes, the neck area and thighs.
0 1 0 0Neck area i think most
Yep probably.
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4 4obviously our clit. do guys seriously not know this? *shaking head*
0 0 1 1clitoris as it is the female sexual organ
0 0 0 0Upper part of the clitorus
0 0 0 0before sex while she is not in mood and guy has to stimulate her?
Yes, be gentle though
hmmmmm
the clitoris
0 0 0 0no no before sex to make her want sex
That's personal preference mostly
it varies from person to person.
0 0 0 0The g spot
0 0 0 0When i stimulate female for sex place test subject on table and stand behind radiation protected wall for stimulation machine.
Also the butt holes.0 0 0 0lick her ears and she will be sitting in a puddle
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