What kind of kinky things are guys into in bed?

I love kinky sex, and I want to introduce the concept to my boyfriend... However I don't know what most men like. Also, how kinky is too kinky? For example I'm into handcuffs, blindfolds, public sex, whips, leather, candle wax, etc. Basically BDSM Will this freak my boyfriend out? Or will it turn him on in some way? Thanks in advance for all answers!
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  • Depends on the guy.

    Mention it to him slowly. Don't throw all of it out at once, because if he's not comfortable with it, it could freak him out. Start out by talking about your sex life, how you enjoy it, and how you're interested in trying some new things. See if he seems interested... at this point most guys are.

    Tell him your interested in some things with power play, i.e. someone being more dominant. This way, it's very light hearted and you can get a sense for how he feels about it. If he seems thoughtful, then start there. If he seems ready to go as if he's already had experience with such, then mention trying to take it to the next level, with either blindfolds or light bondage. And again, pause and guage where he is at.

    In any case, you should really start with the light stuff first, and work your way into more hardcore kinky things, like wax, whips, extreme bondage, etc.

    • Oh, I would LOVE to hear about your fantasies and your past experiences! If you're interested in exchanging emails, feel free to write me at yahoo. com

  • I fuck my guy with a strapon. He loves it. The prostate orgasms he has are amazing to see to. It's the only way he can have multiple orgasms

    • Oh, that's really hot! I've often fantasized about a woman asking me to let her do that!

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  • I never thought I was kinky. After two years of marriage out of the clear blue sky my wife asked if she could tie my hands to the bed. I wondered why, but I was already aroused and said yes only if you let me tie your hands some time also. So she tied me as she was tying me I started getting aroused to a higher level than I had ever experienced before. We slowly progressed to tying each others legs also. Ended up she asked me to be tied up because she wanted me to start tying her up and that was her way of introducing her kinks to me. We take turns tying each other up we enjoy teasing and edging the one in bondage I like both roles of being the prisoner or the jailer. Start slow and always have a safe word.

  • mostly guys like that

    i hope your guy also likes kinky

    just tease him a lot then automatically he will give you the way to start kinky

    if were your guy

    i would pinch your bums, beat them hard, bite them

    would take your nipples between the teeth and give them a bite

    holding the nipples between teeth pull them hard and make you shout loud

    biting on breast making it red

    tearing the panty

    if hairy p**** then I would pick the hair with my teeth

    hold the clitoris in teeth gave them a bite

    would f*** you in periods with blood flowing

    what are your comments babe!

    • Sex during periods? Really?! hmmmm interesting and if you were my boyfriend, I'd let you do anything you like ;)

    • i could add more to this dear if I were your boyfriend then you would have cried in pain and pleasure miss you dear

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  • I think that's ALL hot!

    Suggestions: If you tie him up, blindfold him. Tell him that if he wants to cum, he HAS to ask for permission and that he can't cum without it. Also, tell him that when he asks, he has to ask nicely and politely. If you say no, he's not allowed to moan, groan or complain. Next run your fingertips all over his body and slowly work your way down to his cock. When you finally reach it, stroke it with a very light touch, starting with one finger and gradually add more. Kiss and lick his cock with a very soft light touch. Next, sit on his face and make him eat you out. After you cum, sit down on his cock and use him for your sexual pleasure. If he asks for permission to cum, tell him NO! After you cum, sit back down on his face again and make him eat you out again. Then, give him a very slow, tedious, edging kind of handjob. When he asks for permission to cum, once again, tell him no. Ask him, "How bad do you want to cum?" Or, "What are you willing to do for an orgasm?" Or, make him promise to do something really naughty, kinky or taboo for permission. When you decide it's time for him to cum, stroke him softly and slowly, just around the tip, no more. When he cums, don't speed up or stroke him harder. Nice and slow with a very light touch. This will drive him crazy!

  • I don't know about your boyfriend, but the kinks you mentioned also turn me on!

  • Well from personal experience I love the blind folds. To me there is nothing like not know where the girl is going to kiss, lick or suck next.

  • LOL! you are way wilder in bed than I am! You generalize when you say what "most men like' we are all totally different...half the stuff that I hear from other men on GAG are not stimulating to me at all..and tho there are a lot that like what I like..yet there are a lot that do not...OK...here is what heats me up the most..i like to give my female oral while she does Riding the North Face and pees in my mouth...some guys would kill for that...but some guys would probably throw up...depends what they are dialed into...I was the way I am by the time I was 13...

  • I might have a problem with some of the S&M stuff, but the rest is fair game to me. It should be discussed with him, but build up to things. Don't hit him all at once with everything. Good luck!

  • I am into sex during MENSTRUATION!

    • Yeah! I am not so much...but if gays can come of the closet...SO CAN WE!

  • Start small like with handcuffs and move your way up, some day you may even do pegging which is super pleasurable toward the guy and if the dildo vibrats and is curves oh, you are a fantastic women, but don't start with that if he's not kinky

  • you can start by fingering his ass while you give him head