What makes a man bad in bed?

Its all in the question^^^...Elaborate as much as you want ladies.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Foreplay is probably the biggest killer. Men are ready to go 24/7, so foreplay is optional. women can't get in the mood at the flick of a switch, they NEED foreplay, to get the wet, relaxed, and to build up emotional tension for orgasm.

    Also, "making love" will not only make her crazy, but will make her feel estatic, to do this, build up the romance a little- take a bubble bath together lit by music, suprise her by taking her to her favorite place to eat, even watching female friendly p*rn will help. (in female friendly its more intimate and love like so girls like it, you can find it on p*rn hub, "Passion" videos are the best).

    And for performance issues, to last longer simply masturbate an hour or so before so that you have to build up semen again, you'll get an extra 5-10 minutes. Also, whether or not you are into it, put a lot of emphasis on her, do things like cunnilingus to get her feeling amazing, or even to the point of orgasm. Also try some special feel good postitions like the bulldog, arch and some other deep penetrating postitions. Also don't treat her like meat. Start off slow so her vagina can adjust to your penis, and don't increase in speed too much unless she says "faster" most girls want slower, deep penetration instead of going as fast as humanly possible.

    And you ask her where to spew your load when you finish, and after that cuddle.

    Thats about it.

  • To the guy was good in bed, first he wants to give the girl satisfaction. You need to understand that girls differently from boys. Girls are also similar and different. Must understand what excites his girlfriend and what her leads to orgasm. Must understand that girls need more time to get excited. Must learn to delay his ejaculation to prevent come in two minutes.

    If all this does not understand then he is bad in bed

Most Helpful Girls

  • A guy I was with that I thought were really bad didn't really know any of the mechanics when it came to sex, except the obvious ones - he did a bit of kissing first, then a bit of grabbing, and then went down to it without trying to "tend" to my needs. Always the same rout. He didn't know how to please me and what made him bad was that he made no effort at all to learn either. And he was a bit boring - the same positions, the same places, nothing outside of the bedroom. But as I said, that was not what made him bad, just boring :p So that is my opinion on what makes a guy bad, hoped it helped :)

  • Ignoring that you have elbowed my hair. My hair is long, doesn't matter if I have it up or not. BE CAREFUL!

    Not being rough enough, I'm not made out of glass.. I won't break.

    Lack of communication.

    Being too quiet.. Dirty talk please! Heavy breathing is nice.

    Lack of variety.

    Cut your damn fingernails. Leaving the scratching to me.

    Lack of kissing.. Lack of hands on me.

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    • i do like your style

    • very helpful

  • - selfish

    - doesn't involve himself/not very enthusiastic/lays there like a dead fish

    - poor communication (doesn't tell you what he likes/dislikes, isn't receptive to your suggestions)

    - unwilling to try new things, no imagination

    - uptight, judgmental

    - pushy, doesn't respect your boundaries

    - excessively insecure

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  • When all he does is provide a hard penis and does nothing else. There's so much more to do than thrust away.

  • Not listening to me at all when I tell him what I love and hate. That's about it. I can't think of something that makes someone bad in bed that can't be fixed (or at least vastly improved) with communication.

  • I hate when inexperienced guys expect sex to be like a p*rn sene and compare you to p*rn stars. I also hate when they focus so much on trying to make you come that they forget that the point is to enjoy the experience.

  • I bet it's finishing too quick. Nobody likes a 5 minute hitter quitter, ya know?

  • When he doesn't satisfy me. It does't feel as good. No variety.

  • a guy whos only in it for himself.

  • Lack of passion, not paying attention to her needs, not paying attention to her sounds and movements, and being selfish

  • Someone who does not know what he's doing, is not very rough and does not want to pleasure me.

  • Doesn't try to pleasure me