What is the motion in the ocean (sex reference)?

[Kellen21]

I know that girls here are tired of penis questions on GAG and in other places. I'm a virgin and I'm only slightly above average (6.5 x 5.75 @ MAX) and I may lose my virginity soon (Tuesday, maybe). However, I have a couple questions. Many girls say these statements regarding penis size: "It's not the size that counts, it's how you use it" or "It's not the size of the boat that matters, it's the motion of the ocean." What is the motion of the ocean? How do you use it? (In a way most pleasurable) What should I do?

[moniquinha]

"The Motion of the Ocean" has to do with how you move your pelvic region as you enter and exit the vagina. There are different things you can do that could feel good to the girl:

1. come all the way out and back in ( this can stimulate the vaginal opening and the clit by tugging on the labia.)

2. each time you enter her, press your pelvic area into her genital region (firmly, but not too hard). This pressure against the vulva and clit feels really good. You can also do this in a circular motion and it's best done at a slow to moderate pace.

3. Certain positions, like doggy style, can stimulate the g-spot (located on the front wall of the vagina behind the clit)...but if this is your first time, I would stick to the simple stuff like missionary.

4. Sometimes really fast and hard thrusting can feel good too, but if this is her first time too...it could be painful and too much for her.

Pay attention to her reactions too...and ask her if what you're doing feels good. We're all different in our preferences.

Good luck!

[ncsquirll99]

this deserves best answer.. are you sure you aren't a guy with experience?! very well said.

[MrOracle]

Great answer. QA: It really just means that "technique" and paying attention to her reactions and responding accordingly are FAR more important than the size of your equipment.

[cyrus7]

Something that you should keep in mind is to not focus too much on just penetration

Use your entire body, from your fingers to your eyes, to your mouth. even your legs! use it all in combination and you'll be a pleaser for sure

[Kellen21]

I don't get the legs part. And I'm definitely not into feet fetishes.

[cyrus7]

you can use your legs to spread her legs apart e.g if you're in doggy, you can use your legs to spread her's apart that will give her a different feeling, etc etc. point is, get creative! plus, the more skin on skin contact, the better in my opinion

[TheBattMan]

Motion of the ocean just means the way you stroke when having sex. Basically, whether you thrust hard, soft, slow, fast, in a good position, etc.