What pace do you like having sex?

i had sex with this girl for the first time on our fourth date. I wanted to please her because she gave my friend a BDR (bad d*** report) a couple of years ago (they ended their relationship on a good note it wasn't bad). And I heard from another female friend that she said I was like a jack hammer, real fast and came fast as well. I asked the friend did she say or did it sounded like it was good sex or bad. She said she couldn't determine if she sounded good or bad. what's your take? do girls like it like a jack hammer (hard and fast) or what?
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  • From what I have found, most girls will let you know if they want you to be a jack hammer. Most I have found like things to last, not to long and really the mood that the girl is in will determine a lot too. **** by all means though we must be responsible and look after her needs, make sure that she cums and really if at all possible, I try to make her come several times and let her decide how she wants it and pay attention to her emotions and facial and body language while I am F*cking her. Something I have also found works great is start out slow and passionate and work up to it , but I will ask her if she wants it hard at the right moment.

    Biggest lesson I have learned though is all girls are different, and that is a good thing !

  • 'Cums fast' is rarely a positive.

    Some women like jack hammering, some hate it.

    • This pretty much. Depends on the girl. Generally speaking, its about variety. Most girls like a mix between fast and slow, rough and gentile.

    • 2-5 minutes is too short for most. Especially '2'.

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  • depends if it is for the first time. the bad thing about fast and hard is that yes you do come well at least for the guys you come a lot faster and I suppose it depends on the motions and what position. it's not cool just to do it and have her head banging up against the head board or anything but I suppose you should use different positions and I suppose if you just I don't know don't really love each other or care for one another it doesn't matter if it's sensual although there is nothing wrong with that either even if you don't but it's hard to feel that when you feel nothing for one another unless it's raw passion. but back to the question fast and hard is very pleasurable but not so much when he cums too fast.

  • I would say a big "NO" for jack hammer. We called it 30 minutes for a quicky. So..You can figure how long my boyfriend can take me to enjoy with him. Our routine for teasing and having sex always take around an hour or more. I love him so much and he can please me the most in my life. I please him every way I could too. I make him drips and he loves it a lot. He pounds me slow and gentle in the beginning, then fast and hard. And then, slow down to tease and hard thrust again. It was always mixed pace and that can drive me crazy. He even asked me if I want him to come and where I want it. He can last as long as I wish.

    Try to control yourself to please your girl. Get some exercise to control.

  • Lol she was saying you sucked in bed basically! We don't like being pounded away at, it doesn't feel good. And the fact she said you came fast adds insult to injury. That means you didn't wait to get her off. Sorry but she's basically giving you a thumbs down lol. Is this like your first time having sex or something? Lol

    • LOL. I did came fast between 2 to 5 minutes. but it sounded like she was enjoying- she did make some noises (moans). I guess I got excited and wanted to do her good so I can have another opportunity maybe. If she lets me again, will it be becuase she like it? WELL I JUST found it throough my female friend (text) that she said it was a little awkward and it may be different if we do it again. I definitely will be different next time.

    • Lol 2-5 minutes? Dude you basically didn't do anything for her. She prob was moaning because it felt good for the brief amount of time you did it but the biggest problem is you didn't allow her to orgasm. And its not good sex if she can't get off. I suggest you practice on trying to hold it longer. And also foreplay is very important. It'll help her get off too so you don't have to just pound away forever ( which gets really boring anyway)

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  • Sometimes gals love hard and fast and others want it nice and slow...for me I'm a happy medium kinda gal...yes there will be times that I just want a wham bam thank you maam type of a time but others I prefer to take my time and enjoy it...take this advice...a woman in bed is like a fine tuned engine...it takes a while to get her warmed up but when you do...hold on tight because its gonna be one helluva ride!

  • lol

  • grow up, you're in your 30s