What's the characteristics of a "loose" vagina?

Sometimes, I feel like MY vagina is just.. not very tight:/ But I've only been with two guys, neither of which were very big at all. I notice that at first, I'm actually pretty tight, but with stimulation, I "loosen up" and THEN I feel like I'm just not tight AT ALL. I HATE it but I don't know if that's how every girl is, or if that's just how my body works.. or if I really am, just loose:( It's been bothering me for years, but I've never really talked to anyone about it or SEEN other vaginas, for comparison, so.. I don't know what determines if a girl is "loose" or "tight"
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Some people are born with wider set vaginas or the muscles there aren't the same as the next girl. There's nothing wrong with it and it really isn't something you should worry about. How many guys you sleep with isn't relevant. I've slept around quite a bit and mine is still pretty tight. Having sex 50 times with one guy or once with 50 different guys - your anatomy knows no difference. That is just an irrational myth people hold onto to look down on promiscuity in women. Some women are still relatively tight a while after giving birth so a penis isn't really anything compared to a human being now is it? Lol

    Stop worrying about this. There's nothing you can do about it anyway.love your p**** and move on

  • Dont worry about it sweety.. You can work your muscles if it really bothers you, but it all depends on the size of the c*ck. I've had a guy tell me that its too tight, so tight isn't always the best. I guess whatever floats your boat (:

  • There are no characteristics other than it being loose, as implied.

    If you are comfortable with yourself, try inserting a finger into your vagina, try performing kegels and see how tight it is

Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't think you should worry at all. It's not worth measuring because it depends who you're paired with. I have more problems with too tight than with too loose. And I'm not huge. My current girl has a miniature vagina, a good bit more snug than I'd like. You'll find some guys are thicker and they'll make you feel like a tighter fit. Do kegels if it really bothers you.

  • Loose to me means that it doesn't really grip back down on my c*ck. It should offer some resistance as I penetrate. Of course it accommodates as the sex continues but it's that friction and resistance that makes me harder which makes you wetter which is how the whole shebang is supposed to work.

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  • If you can put three fingers in side by side and there is zero discomfort then you are loose.

  • The vagina widens as women are sexually aroused. So yes, it's normal.

  • any more than 2 fingers and your loose

    • Those must be very small baby fingers then.

  • "someone wrote about me in there that's I'm not virgin because I use super jumbo tampons, but I can't help that I have a heavy flow and a wide set vagina."

    • bahahahah am I the only one who gets this?

    • xD love that movie lol