What's the difference in fingering myself and my boyfriend fingering me?

[Anonymous]

like...does it feel different?

[dave_b_quick]

You will always be much better at it than he will. It's your body and when you finger yourself you instantly know what feels good and quickly learn what works. Especially if he hasn't had much experience with other women, he will probably start out with misperceptions of what he expects will feel good for you, and he has only your comments and body language to teach him whether he's doing it right or not. You will have to teach him what works for you and what is painful or uncomfortable. Hopefully he will be good learner and you will allow him plenty of opportunities to practice until he becomes adept at the art of digital pleasure.

[jackflynn7]

Of course. When he does it, it can be pure pleasure where with you, there is effort and thought. Tell him how you like it so he does it better.

[cdashay]

you know your body more than your boyfriend does so it should be two different experiences. Your boyfriend won't be absolutely sure what feels good to you unless you tell him. So it might be better when you do it yourself. But at the same time your more sensitive to some one else's touch than you are to your own, so him doing it can be extra special as well..it all depends on who you are!

[micgirl]

The only difference I have noticed is that when you finger yourself you can control what you feel yourself and you know how to get yourself to an orgasm quicker. But when being fingered by a guy it's harder to teach an orgasm because he has to figure out what feels good to you by your reactions and by what you tell him. That's what I think.

[rachelriley28]

Yepp, there's no effort involved from you, and when my boyfriend does it he can get deeper, but when you do it to yourself you know what like feels good and what doesn't :P So you have to talk to him.

[rosalinda]

i guess it feels much good when he's doing that for you because you won't be doing any effort so u'll be just enjoying it and having much fun.