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What's the farthest you'd physically go on a first date?

What's the limit? Do you even have limits? And for this scenario, you were not friends first nor did you know each other for a long time
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  • A hug. Anything more is just not the correct thing to do, as in it is factually wrong to do anything more. It's not a matter of subjectivity. Going all the way and having sex on a first date would be flat out ridiculous. It just proves to the other person that in a nutshell, you're incredibly insecure, needy, and lack morals and aren't a quality long term partner. Even kissing is too much.

    Doesn't matter how hot someone is. Respect them, respect yourself. Show some restraint. Show them you're in it for who they are, not for their sexuality.

    Reach an agreement early on in a relationship and prolong sex as long as possible and see how long the relationship lasts. Likely a lot longer. Let the sexual part of the relationship progress naturally, and then prolong things some more.

    Make the other person earn it, don't just give yourself away freely. It will make your first time with that person unforgettable and special. It's a philosophy I firmly believe and stand by.

  • My first online date ended with cheek kisses.

    I'd say that's about the right amount for "let's have a second date".

    I didn't kiss her directly until our fifth date. She started to go for the cheek but I went for mouth-to-mouth...surprisingly, SHE was the one to start tonguing (I was a little shocked, but amused).

    I need to setup a 6th date with her.

Most Helpful Girls

  • For a good first date, I say a goodnight hug is appropriate. For a GREAT first date, a long goodnight kiss is perfect. A kiss after a good date really lets me know if I like a guy or not.

    But I will say that with my current boyfriend, we had sex on our first date. I've never done that before, but we've been dating a year now so I guess that worked.

    • You two dated for a year before your first date? How does that work?

    • Never mind I read your sentence wrong

    • We HAD sex on first date. (Past tense) We've been dating for a year NOW. (Present tense) Learn to read.

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  • I've only been on a few dates... the most I did on the first one was hug. On the second, I laid my head on his shoulder and offered to rub his shoulder because he said it was sore from work. He saw that stuff as me coming on too strong and decided he didn't want to be more than friends with me. :(

    • The guy was ridiculously conservative then. I wouldn't call that coming on too strong at all.

    • Exactly what I thought. My friends, parents, sister, and friends were all equally confused as I am. I think the truth might be that he's afraid of getting hurt again or of a long-distance relationships, but that me "coming on too strong" was the best excuse he could think of at the time.

  • A deep kiss, and this would be under the pretense that we had a preexisting history or a very powerful connection that made the situation comfortable and powerful enough to act upon with no second guessing.

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  • Sex. I generally don't date people if I'm not down for it. I'd probably be confused and disappointed if all I got was a hug. If the other person's not up for sex straight away then that's cool, but I'd at least be expecting to make out.

  • Probably making out. Definitely not more than that on a first date.

  • BDSM = STOP sign. However, each first date is different. So, it's definitely determined on a csae-by-case basis. Before I met my wife, a first date could end up anywhere between a handshake and breakfast.

  • If it's really amazing and we hit it off, making out.

  • At the moment personally I've got no limit. Chances are that will change with time as my experiences with first dates differ and grow.

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