What's it mean if he does this during a blowjob?

[Anonymous]

I was giving my boyfriend a blowjob for the first time (first time giving one to him, not my first time) and after a minute or so of me doing my thing he starts thrusting his hips a little and pretty much just did all the work. I mean I was going down with him rhythmically and stuff but I feel like he kind of just f*cked my mouth lol. Guys, do you think he did this because he was just into it and its a normal reaction to thrust like that? Or because he thought it was boring and decided to just do things himself. Is that bad? Btw he did come after a few minutes, didn't take that long, and I swallowed and he seemed pretty happy.

[IceDude]

It was probably boring to him.

You swallowed? Good girl ;)

P.S.

By the way, I see you don't looking for tips, but, next time try this:

1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone.

10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

Good luck

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[lv4lv]

Guys just have a need to move around when being pleasured a lot of the time. Even when we're doing it ourselves we'll sometimes thrust instinctively.

[Asker]

Yeah I move my hips a lot when a guy goes down on me too haha.

[anneread]

Guys like to be the active one. It is a token of being sincere when not controlling it. The guy likes you to trust him not to abuse your sincerety by pushing forward too strong. It gives him the feeling you trust him . My lovers liked it when I touched their ass while licking them. You feel if he needs it strongly or softly.

[HitByTheTruth]

Okay now your just teasing us by telling us that you swallowed = ) Just kidding.

He could have been doing that because you weren't going as fast as he would like or he was just really into that he started thrusting it into your mouth.

[Asker]

Haha well my intention was to inform you that, by my standards it was a pretty good blowjob. So I'm hoping that he didn't do it cause my own moves just weren't cutting it. Would you be like disappointed if the girl didn't go fast enough and you had to do that?

[HitByTheTruth]

Honestly my girl doesn't do blowjobs, so if I had a girl go down on me at any speed I would be happy = ) lol

[Asker]

Haha good point. :)

[Littletad]

Thrusting makes it more intense. Yes, he was happy.

[BenWebster84]

I do that when I get really into it! Don't worry about it!

[Anonymous]

Haha. I actually had to do this once. It was because it wasn't feeling so good...so I helped her out and was able to come not long after that. She was trying though and I felt bad. I am always very grateful when a girl is willing to provide me with oral sex. I think she was focusing too much on licking it instead of sucking on it. I wanted her to go down on it...Like suck on the whole thing. Yeah and I basically mouth f***ed her too. lol. She hadn't given that much head and wasn't that experienced with working it. But yeah if your doing it right the guy should just lay back and not have to do a thing...that's the best!

[Asker]

Ahhh I keep getting mixed answers lol. I don't think it was boring or bad...and I wasn't just licking I mean I know how to give a blowjob. I was kind of nervous since I didn't know what HE liked specifically but I was happy to be doing it and enjoyed myself. It had a happy ending so that's good haha. I just wish I knew so I could see what I should do next time to make it better for him.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I mean a blowjob is never boring! haha. We thrust sometimes to make it better. It's a way of controlling the pleasure. It's like he's showing you how he likes it and where he wants your mouth. If he does that just follow his lead and go with it. I would say try deepthroating. Guys love this. Make sure your sucking on it like you are trying to suck the come out...get suction on it... don't just slide it in and out of your mouth. Also, start off slow and go faster and faster.

[Anonymous]

he did this because he was just into it and its a normal reaction to thrust like that

[Asker]

Okay thank you :)