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What's the deal with labia?

I used to be unhealthily into watching pornography when I was really young and the majority of women had inner labia that weren't visible. At that time, I created this expectation that all women were like that (again, I was REALLY young). I've seen plenty of (real, non-pornstar) vulva since and have seen inner labia in ranges from "invisible" to 3 inches long. (I won't say what my preference is, but I will say that I love the variety!) So, two things: Why do you think many mainstream adult films show "labia-less" to near "labia-less" women? (I'm aware that there films/sites out there for those who like longer labia, but, from what I've seen, they're not as mainstream.) AND If someone has inner labia that show and/or are longer than the outer labia, is that a turn-off or something that is undesirable? In your opinion, is there a "labia length limit" that becomes no longer sexy? Are you still down to do sexual/kinky things with someone with 1-, 2-, 3- inch inner labia?
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  • In response to your first question I'd say that almost every media outlet tends to place their stock in visual perfection. The fact is sex sells and unfortunately idiots are the majority. As a rule of thumb, said idiots tend to troll their way through life believing everything they see and hear on television, the radio and on the internet. Without a doubt, porn is the enemy and have single handedly aided in the objectification of women. Years ago, in the more innocent age of pornography (if thats even possible), porn actresses could commonly be found to have natural breasts, large labia, and dare I say it... pubic hair! The idiot, ignorant trolls who watched said porn observed women who were endowed with large labia and began to assume that any woman who frequently had sex must also have large labia. At the time, seeing large labia in porn was much more common than today. Unfortunately, both the ignorance and stupidity of the common man has played right into the explosion of pornography, plastic surgery, and hygiene products. The industry has twisted the minds of people everywhere. Men now seek the very same perfection that they see on tv and the internet in the women they meet daily and unfortunately, the majority of women give into social pressures, so much so that they now believe that normal is wrong and having prepubescent appearing genitals is the norm. So sad...

    To answer your second question; large labia are simply put, GORGEOUS!! They are without a doubt a bonus for me and the bigger, the longer, the more prolific they are, the better. Why you may ask? The same reason a woman with pubic hair is also highly erotic and desirable. Because it's normal. And any woman (notice the term indicates maturity) who is intelligent and confident enough to be normal and not feel as though she needs to conform to ridiculous societal standards and attempt to make herself appear as though she were a child is a 10 in my book all day long... men appreaciate women and boys chase girls. Hope this helped?

    • I’d like this a thousand times if I could, I love large labia and oral is a million times better when there’s more to eat;) And bushes are great too!

  • Its just a trend. Trust me.. That will vanish... Labias and a clit (small or large) is a turn on.. If a guy judges your vagina then they are just silly little boys who obviously don't know what a real vagina looks like.

    A few hundred years ago men with 'large' penises use to get laughed at.. Now look.. Its men with small penises getting laughed at

    I know more men who prefer pubic hair on a woman then guys who don't like pubic hair

    But the point here is EVERYONE is different and either way its still sexy as fu**n

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  • I do not know, but from previous statements men generally have a favorite but do not care too much either way.

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  • "unhealthily into watching pornography"

    *inner and outies
    *cut and uncut

    same deal yo.
    Also , it's a vagjay , you'll need to be someone with a theoretical degree in gynecology to complain about labia.

  • Oh yeah I would love to suck and lick her big labia love o watch those lips wrap around my cock as she rides it

  • No max length. I love a big labia and think a labia 'less' pussy just lacks that extra something special!

  • Porn is't about real life, it's about models. They are chosen only because
    -they obey
    -they look like what directors think will sell best.

    No other 'qualities' are required.

    Don't forget that takes are cut: the pussy or penis you see doesn't necessarily belong to the face and torso you've seen a minute earlier.

    • edit: *don't

  • funny, back in the day, girls always had nice beefy lips, and I lobed them.. but I have noticed how the porn industry has gravitated towards the thin lipped girls.. Anal bleaching and labiaplasty do nothing but make girls more concerned about a none existant perfection..

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