What's with penis size and why do women seem so nasty about it?

[Anonymous]

Yeah. My ex and her friends are consistently teasing/making fun of me about my size. That was actually the focal point of the break up. What's the deal with it? ._. So what, my penis is only 4 inches long and thin, I still want to try my best to make her happy. I guess that's not good enough? I know that my penis probably isn't as physically attracting, nor is it as psychologically stimulating. I don't know what I'm supposed to do to be good enough now. I don't judge women based on the size of their breasts...it's the person they're attached to that I'm attracted to more. Big or small I don't really care at all so don't try to defend her about being mean to me. ._____.; What do I do...?

[Michiko17]

I've had a big penis before and not all long and big penises feel good. Whether it's thin or thick, it's all about what you do to please the girl, whether it's with your penis or mouth. I've got a friend who thinks big penises are everything. If I was with a guy with a 4 inch penis, I wouldn't make fun of it, that's just stupid. I'd probably give him blow jobs galore though lol and I can orgasm whether the penis is big or small, just as long as it hits my spot and isn't painful. I don't judge if I'm in love or really attracted to the guy. I see his face and personality before I see his package. His package is just a plus, it's not a deal breaker to me.

[anynymoooooose]

Could it still be a plus if it were around 5 inches?

[Michiko17]

Yeah

[Asker]

4 isn't so bad? D: ._.

[Katelyn1214]

listen my boyfriend isn't big length wise, but he is normal in girth...i will tell you from experience it's not about the size...it is how you please a girl...my boyfriend doesn't just bulldoze me...Roflmao...wow that doesn't leave a good image...he pays attention 2 my body and stares into my eyes. your ex-gf seems like a real B.I.T.C.H! dont' worry your fine and it will be ok.

[Dominique_7]

There's a difference between judging someone on their breasts and on their penis size. Breasts are nice aesthetically, but the size of the penis partly determines the sexual pleasure of the girl. You wouldn't like dating a girl with a huge vagina either, you wouldn't feel anything.

[Asker]

I wouldn't really know, I can't exactly guess how big her vagina is by looking at her crotch, can I? And erm, I can't choose or change the size of my penis. Are you saying that I won't be able to make any girl happy because I didn't get a p*rn star's penis? .__.; Girls don't like dating guys with a small penis because they wouldn't feel anything, okay. What do I do then? You tell me. ._______.;

[Asker]

And I'd like to comment, I wouldn't care if I dated a girl with a huge vagina. What's it to me? As far as I'm concerned, they're all huge. :P

[clutch]

Take it like a man. If you sleep with a girl and you don't expect to be teased and don't expect her to tell your size to all of her friends then you're crazy. Just have a good sense of humour about it because you can't change who you are or what you look like. Just keep doing what you're doing and use what you have. Women don't actually care as much as they let on. Don't let them see it bother you.

[anon1111]

You're fine dude. You're ex is just a shallow bitch.

There are no men with small penises. There are only girls with loose vaginas.

Find a new girl who's less of a whore.

[peace-love-couture]

Women judge men,men judge women.I know I'll get some lectures or thumbs down because I'm not giving a kiss ass answer with sympathy.

If you try,you're willing to learn,then that's great.Most dumbasses with big d***s think they don't have to try simply because they have a big one.

[flatironguy]

What a vague generalization. Not that both men and women judge each other, that's obvious. But this idea that men with larger penises more often than not feel they don't have to try, makes me wonder if a bunch of guys that are horrible in bed are just having a bunch of one night stands, or if women are just making assumptions.

[Asker]

I'm not looking for a sympathetic answer at all. I just really wanna hear the honest truth about this. Not all guys with giant penises don't try, if you were supposed to choose between a guy with a big penis and a guy with a small penis and they were both equally as good in bed, who would you go with?

[peace-love-couture]

It would depend.Girls only want big penis's for bragging rights.Bigger doesn't mean good in bed nor does it mean the guy will be a good sex partner.

[Asker]

Bragging rights? What? Personally though, who would you choose? :P

[peace-love-couture]

Yes,so they can brag to their friends "oh my boyfriend has a big d***" And I guess smaller.Vagina is only 3-4 inches...or whichever one is my boyfriend haha

[Asker]

That's sort of weird that women brag about that, what do women whose boyfriends have small penises do? Haha. :P Mm, I see. D: Are you okay with your bf's or do ya sometimes wish he was bigger? >.>

[peace-love-couture]

Eh,some women are stupid. And I don't have a boyfriend...but I certainly wouldn't complain about it nor would I tell anyone about it.Vagina is only 3-4 inches,so it would fit perfectly and there are such things as fingers and mouth.Learn to use those and you're set

[l-hedoniste]

Your ex and her friends are assholes. Why are you still dealing with them? There are lots of women who don't care. Try them.

[livyg]

you need to do other things in bed that make girls come before you even start! when I first got with my boyfriend I was more than disappointed but a women vagina shapes to there partener after a while! remember there no such thing as guys with small d***s its just girls with buckets

[Anonymous]

just don't worry about it brosiff. I'm 6inches 5 girth and have had ex's make fun of me, even though that is completely average! just forget about that hoebag and find another girl that isn't so immature.

[Killfest400]

Indeed. Your ex is a bitch, and she's trying to make you feel bad to make herself feel better for not having you. Ignore her, ignore her friends, and find a girl who's actually deserving of your attention.