What should I do about this penis problem?

[Anonymous]

K peeps I'm lost on what I can do. Please read this all for its a serious problem of mine. In all serious my penis is lacking in girth. I know I'm average in length so that's not a major concern. I am a fairly attractive guy and have had no problem getting laid. I've had several sexual partners over the past few years and only 2 out of about 11 have been tight enough to pleasure ME. sex lasts 45 min to an hour simply because I can't feel enough pleasure to get off... I've had many regular sized condoms slip off and end up inside her. Two nights ago I actually went limp inside a girl for the first time so that is what really scared me. I'm confident in my ability to please her (even if its just during foreplay) because the majority of my partners come back multiple times even if we aren't exclusive. I primarily depend on her giving me oral to get off. I have two worries. 1- obviously pleasuring her and myself. 2- not being able to ejaculate in my future wife when ready for kids. Any ideas on what I can do? Any other guys with this issue? Any girls been with guys with my problem?

[Anonymous]

I've had the issue with a guy before. He just didn't have the girth and I was thinking it just wasn't right. He had me to put my index finger and middle finger down there to make it "tighter" has he went in an out to actually feel it I guess. I mentioned it to someone else and they said that that was typical for guys to do if needed. Try that and see how it goes...but as far as condoms I'm not sure what to tell you. Buy some of these online: link

[Asker]

of course they are out of stock. haha!

[Opinion Owner]

lol well that should make you feel GOOD! hahaha I'm sure there is somewhere on here that has them in stock...just search for them :-)

[Opinion Owner]

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There you go!

[Anonymous]

Hhhmm never really herd of that issue, but don't get discouraged. There could just be something wrong with the girls you are having intercourse with (no offence to them). Try a virgin or just a different sex possition that you've never tried...your penis just may in fact be bored. or maybe take a break from sex.

[Asker]

i've tried MANY positions. I'm very adventurous when it comes to sex. I mean hell, anal is tight enough. but I would definitely prefer a vagina. and yeah I had the same thought that maybe the girls were just loose. but when 9 out of 11 were too loose? yeah then it comes back to being a problem with my d*** haha

[Opinion Owner]

how long have you gone without having sex?

[Asker]

lost my virginity just over 3 years ago. and since then the longest was probably.. 4 months? give or take.

[lolli]

It's time to see a doctor babe. Probably a urologist.

[Asker]

I had honestly thought about it... but then I figure what can a Urologist do about it? haha?

[lolli]

Probably see if there is a blood flow problem that caused the lose of erection. And maybe there is a procedure to enhance girth. It sounds like it would be easier than enhancing length to me. Maybe some fat injections or something, idk. Research it.

[G_GTom]

Girth is a big deal for women. Most women will prefer girth over length. If it's that important to you or it's that important to her, you'll need to find a woman who fits you better. As you stated, some women are going to be tighter than others.

So, there may be quite a few women out there who do not prefer what you have, but only a small minority will reject you for it. If you're fine with all this, then you shouldn't worry too much.

[Asker]

the worry is that condoms fall off and I RARELY get enough pleasure to bust inside her. And yes, I agree some woman are tighter than others. but when 2/11 are actually tight enough to pleasure me than its going to be hell finding a girl that's compatible relationship wise as well as sexual wise. even the 2 that were tight enough said they are used to a thicker penis.

[G_GTom]

Well, you can buy custom fit condoms. You'll have to order them, but just order in bulk :) Like I said, if you can live with a women who prefers the size of another guy, your chances of finding a women who will stick with you is fairly good. Now, you may not get a lot of please out of it, but that's only something you can decide how important it is to you.

[Mahalko]

Worry less about your need to perform well and will usually gets much better..
If you'd really have a physical issue with the girth, they can only do something about that surgically (hyaluron..or in short, they take fat from your ass and inject it in your head)
Otherwise, try other positions where you're using the girl's legs to get more grip on you..

[bridgetttthamilt]

Very odd. Hmmm... you might want to go to the doctor just to be safe... that is a very important area obviously. And a good thing to use for dryness and other irritations down there is a creme called Man1 Man Oil. It is made just for the penis skin and treats pretty much anything that isn't STD related. You can get it online. Hope this helps.

[Cryostatic]

If there actually existed a successful way to increase penis length or girth, you wouldn't have to ask this question, because it would be common knowledge.

[Asker]

then I'm f*cked haha

[Pats1213]

So just how big is your girth

[ayy_hmu]

get help!!!

[Alex_0213]

You can't increase the size of your penis naturally, but you can improve sensitivity by using a penis health creme that hydrates the skin and increases sensivity. Man1 Man Oil is a good option for daily use.

[Anonymous]

You're fine. Stop worrying about it.

[Asker]

dude this isn't a simple, "oh I want to be bigger because girls like it" Its a real issue when condoms won't stay on and when I RARELY get enough pleasure to bust while inside her.