What should I do if my girlfriend doesn't turn me on?

[Anonymous]

The thing is I been seeing this girl for a few months and I really like her but I just can’t seem to reach full arousal for intimacy. I’m unsure if it could be because she is the first girl I’m dating that’s black. I don’t want to tell her this little problem because I don’t want her to get the wrong idea. Any words of advise would greatly help, thanks.

[Anonymous]

if you're not attracted to her you shouldnt be going out in the first place. ur wasting each others time. just break up with her in a nice way and tell her that you really like her but your not right for each other. if a guy felt that way about me I would want him to just end it

[star709]

yea, I agree. If she wasn't attracted to you, she probably woudnt be dating you.

It would be best to just end it. Probably isn't a race thing either

[Anonymous]

If you aren't physically attracted to this girl then why be in a relationship with her?