What are some tips for giving my first blow job?

Tomorrow is my boyfriend's birthday. We have been together for a year and I want to give him a blow job. Any suggestions? I don't really know what I'm doing. Thanks! And is swallowing really that gross? Is that a big turn on if a girl swallows?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • So, you've never given a blow job before. I can imagine what's going through your head... most of you are worried that the guy will just give you a tap on the shoulder and say "that's enough, maybe next time" - the "next time" which will probably never happen, after he goes around the school and tells everyone that you are a disaster. Or maybe you're thinking how you might end up miserably bad, or look dumb from up there - or you're planning on getting wasted on a party and hoping that while being completely drunk you won't accidentally bite off a random dude's penis. You might as well toss it out of a window of a moving car - just to make the whole thing worse than it already would be. Or maybe you just reached a stage in your relationship wondering whether it's "the time" to start experimenting, or maybe "his birthday's coming up" - so why not surprise him with the worst blow job in the universe. Or maybe...

    Whatever.

    Look - NO, you're not going to bite his d*** off, NO - it's not gonna be a disaster, but don't expect it to be the blow job of his life either. You can prepare as much as you want - the more you think, stress and sweat about it - the worse the whole thing will be. So turn off your brain, and stop thinking for a second.

    Practice will make you perfect, really, if you're armed with the proper knowledge, you can get good, not just good - but amazing at giving head. Any girl that's dedicated can do it.

    Second - STOP viewing blow jobs as something you "should" do, or "might" do because "it's your anniversary" - if you're not giving him blow jobs at least 3 times a week then your sex life is incomplete. Good blow jobs are a godsend, and most girls are crap at it. Raise above them, be one of the 5-10% of girls that actually gives proper head, and 1% of those that are a-mazing. But before you can get there - you have to start enjoying it, and doing it out of fun. And it won't be fun until you relax. So calm, the f, down. Breathe.

    Now, follow these 3 simple steps, and you'll survive giving your first blow job.

    One - look him in the eyes, and moan while you are giving him head, periodically, get it out of your mouth, and give him a naughty smile.

    Two - have a firm grip around his shaft with your hand, as you are sucking, stroke, after some time, stroke harder, follow his reactions, feel him - and get out of your head.

    Last but not least, gently massage his balls as you are stroking his shaft, and giving him head, show him your tongue, moan, stroke him hard while holding his balls - and then, tell him to come in your mouth. He'll be as fast as a rabbit once you say this. Be on your knees. Swallow. And have fun. If you mess up, no big deal. It's normal. Check out Jack's Blowjob Lessons for more advanced tips. Equipp yourself with the right knowledge.

  • Just treat it like a lollipop...take your time...lick it up and down, and suck on it. Take it as deep as you are comfortable with. And yes...if you swallow, it's a huge turn on. He'll just love you that much more. No, it's not gross. When he's getting ready...and you'll know...just take him deep, and you won't even taste it. I admire your desire to please him though. Many kudos. Let me know what happens.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Suck it like a lollipop and make sure you put a lot of saliva on his penis so it can feel even better to him...Sucking on his penis when it's dry either hurts him or it doesn't feel as good. Play with his tip and go as deep as you can and just make sure not to use your teeth. Trust me, he'll love it. And as to swallowing his come just make sure he drinks pineapple juice or eats lots of fruits, that will make his come taste more like sugar and a better taste for you. If he's been drinking his come will taste more like a salty nasty flavor...It's all up to you, hope you enjoy it! And let us know how it goes...

  • Look up "how to give a good blow job" on the internet. It will help you.

    Don't try to get the whole thing into your mouth on the first try, you'll probably gag or puke. Focus on the head, use your tongue, suck HARD. Keep a hand around the base of his penis, jerk up and down while you're sucking...and play with his balls with your free hand.

  • don't scrap your teeth on his peniis and pay attention to his balls

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  • lol, um that's really kool, but I like it when girls suck on it and go from tip to the base and also look at me when they are doing it. also stoking it up and down not to hard but firm and slow, and moaning while they do it. also yes swallowing is a major turn on, why I don't know I always wondered the same but I don't know I think its hot. but if you don't want to, on the face is also good as well. have yall had sex yet, and what makes you want to give him a bj besides that its his birthday.

  • Its his birthday I wanna give him a blow job LOL

    • It's not my birthday, but will you suck me?

  • all the work guys have to do in order to make themselves boyfriend material