What Am I Supposed To Do While Getting Oral?

My boyfriend and I want to try oral sex. I've never done it before and I'm kind of nervous. What do I do with my body? How do I position myself? Please give me lots and lots of details on how it works best. Also do guys like it shaved or not? Tell me anything and everything about female oral sex please!
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  • For one thing, relax. The pleasure will be shared with both of you. Unless he says otherwise, try to be clean. At least the first time. Who knows? It may not even matter to him.

    Positioning yourself, try something elevated so his head won't be in an awkward position trying to reach you. For me I often lean over my wife with my head upside down facing her.

    If he can't keep your labia ("lips") spread enough you may have to do the extra detail yourself.

    And you'll find out quickly enough what feels really good for you - don't be afraid to tell him what to focus on. I'm sure that he'll oblige. It's a large playing field. A delicious one at that. If your boyfriend really loves you he'll find the taste irresistable and lucky of you, he'll want to keep going back for more. Generally you can't go wrong.

    Oh. And my wife is not shaved. We're in our forties and that "little girl" look does not appeal to me. Sure on occasion I may get a hair caught in my throat. That doesn't spoil the mood.

    If he likes things shaved, he'll tell you then you can negotiate it. Don't just do it automatically.

    Every guy will be different on this. Best wishes on this. You should have a wonderful time.

    • That was so helpful, thanks so much :]

    • isn't the taste disgusting? I was so embarrassed my first time because I kept going so wet... I thought he was going to hate it! it was like an ocean down there. is it that disgusting?

    • I can't think of a flavour on planet earth that is preferable. Serious. Even chocolate is inferior. But as tastes go, everyone is different. Despite my status as a bisexual, I find female genitalia taste far superior to the male's.

  • If you are on the receiving end? Haha lay there with your legs spread apart, and let him work it. Shave, it's not fun getting pubes in your mouth. My girl says it's really intense and she likes to grab my wrist or hand. She also runs her hand through my hair- which feels great.

    • Haha thanks :] I hate pubes and shave them anyways I was just wondering if guys like it or not.

    • Some of us don't care. Hair is hair. It rarely happens for me and if I get a hair in my throat, I pick it out and continue. Big deal.

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  • i haven't done a blowjob but my boyfriend have gone down on me...

    it might be disgusting for some, but I was not shaved at the moment and he didn't care at all, ( he says he likes variety- sometimes shaved others not)... so it went well, maybe you might want to talk about that with your guy before.

    Just enjoy the moment... it might feel weird at first, but if you just relax I'm sure you'll enjoy it, its a very different good feeling.

    You don't have to do anything with your hands, like I said just relax... but for the record touching your breast while he is down there makes it even better (since nipples are so sensitive).

    • Thank you :]

  • you're not "supposed" to be doing anything. do what feels good. seriously. I know you're looking for details and whatever, but if you worry too much about that, you'll miss out on the actual pleasure of the experience. as for shaving, that's a personal choice. some guys care, others don't, so you should do what you're comfortable with.

    • Thanks :]

  • I usually play with my breasts or run my hands through his hair

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  • Nothing. That's kind of the point. I see it as an act of sexual generosity where your partner lovingly pleasures you and you just lie back and enjoy the ride. Do what ever feels good to you. Feel your breasts, run your hands through his hair or just lie back and say "ahhhh". As long as you express that you're enjoying the experience, it's all good.

  • Honestly, If you think about it too much you won't even be able to orgasm. I've heard that girls can't get off when they are thinking to much. Just enjoy!

  • I prefer hair...don't need to do anything except say :YES!" Lying on her back, I like to push her thighs up and put her feet on my shoulders...probably more comfortable for her than waving her feet around and gives me better access...also can google Riding the North Face...on her knees and straddles my face..EXCELLENT access...and very hot! (:

  • Nothing in particular you need to do. Just lay back with your legs spread and relax and enjoy it. Moan if you like what he's going so he'll know to keep doing it. After the first couple times, if you want to change it up a bit and he's into this, you could try sitting on his face. This would be where he lays down and you squat over his face while he gives you oral. Shaved is good,.but trimmed is fine with me, too.

    • Thank you :] Sitting on his face? That sounds like it would be uncomfortable for both. I guess I won't know till I try

    • More of a figure of speech. Don't actually sit on his face, because that will suffocate him :) Just squat above him with enough separation you're not right on top of him, but still close enough that he can lick you.

    • hahah well I figured that. but wouldn't your legs get tired from squatting for so long?

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  • well I'm not sure if I like it better shaved or not, but I do like that the area around the lips its shaved so I can get a clear view and doesn't tickes me lol

  • Depends if you hold a current recommend.