What to do when called a Quick pumper?

[Anonymous]

What does it mean to be a quick pumper. Me and my girlfriend got into a argument the other day and she call me that and started laughing. 1st time she expressed anything she didn't like about the sex we have. Sometimes we have sex for 20-40 minutes with out any breaks. Even though we have been together for 4 years and she said she was playing I'm considering dumping her. She does many things I don't like during sex but I don't mention them. I don't know how to feel. I just think I need to dump her.

[WpCurious]

Looks like your ego was bruised. You guys need to be able to discuss what you like and dislike about the sex you have, this is the only way you will be able to build your sexual relationship. But it is really not fair of her to call you out on something very personal just because she was angry. To me it already sounds like your mind is made up about dumping her, I would consider talking to her first. Both of you need to discuss what it is that you like during sex and what not. If there are a lot of things you can't work on, maybe you are just then not sexually compatible. Goodl uck.