Tough question. Each girl has her own turn-ons so it depends on who you are looking for and what you are looking for. If you want a long term relationship or that is the setting you want then it'll be more subtle and geared towards romance while if it's a one night stand expect to see more of a wild side.
If you want to gain an average girl's interest sexually or even in an everyday situation there is one thing I can't stress enough and that's CONFIDENCE. I wouldn't want to be in the bedroom with a guy who acts like he doesn't know what he's doing and is fumbling around with excuses, it's a huge turn-off. We want to feel as if a guy isn't just run of the mill ordinary because it boosts are own egos to be with someone who is seen as 'desirable' and the way to portray yourself as that is with confidence. If you screw up shrug it off, if you make a big deal out of something whether it be your million bad attempts to undo a girl's bra or a conversation flaw then chances are we're likely to make a big deal out of it too.
More physical it's been encoded into our minds to seek a man with good genes. And if you look good in jeans then you've got a good head-start. Washboard abs and muscles (not too much so that a guy is bulky) are instantly attractive. And even though it leads up to the bigger act sex remember that the small things are always nice to. Though the finale may be great taking time for foreplay is important (especially kissing). Also it would be nice for the guy to be clean, maybe not a breath mint in his mouth at that time but enough so that you smell faintly of soap and your breath tastes a bit minty rather than of the nachos you had for lunch. Spontaneous affection is always get to get blood pumping. Not sure if I speak for most girls but for me I like a guy who is more in charge, if a guy were to push me against a wall (in a more passionate less violent way- not into domestic abuse) and just kiss me my knees would go weak.
However it all depends on the girl, especially in terms of the actual act of sex (whether she would want you to give oral or what position she favors). There's such a wide variety of likes and dislikes that you're best off either asking that girl or experimenting to see which one she reacts to the most.
First off don't sell yourself short, you are a strong person, you've asked for help, people who don't ask aren't strong, so you are strong!
Second, you need to sit down and write out what it is you don't like about yourself and figure out how you can change it.
Third, figure out where your self esteem and trust issues are coming from, are they from an unresolved issue?
Start a new hobby or revisit one that you have put on hold, try something new, and don't beat yourself up, talk good to yourself, I know sounds weird but it works, say good things to yourself when you look in the mirror, don't put yourself down, because it will bring you down, sometimes we can be our own worst critics!
Well I really love it when my boyfriend bites and sucks on my neck, it gets me so hot.
I also love it when he chokes me and pulls my hair.
I like it rough, but not too rough.
I also like to role play.
Just the other night I dressed up as a school girl with pig tails and everything.
I pretended that he was the teacher and I was the student.
He loved it.
Hi there. I see you have the same problem as I did a long time ago.
1. Girls love with their ears. That means that you have to compliment her, tell her how sexy she is. Don't be afraid to speak to her, just go for it! (Worked for me)
2. Be romantic. I am a romantic person. As far as I know from my own experience, most of the girls love romantic guys.
In bed.
1. Don't think with your penis...think with your brain. That means that you don't have to rush. Take it slow, after all, she needs some time too.
2. Kiss her. While doing that, your arms must play with her body. Never start playing with her breasts or going down her panties really fast. Take some time.
3. In about 10-15 minutes she will be ready for something new. Sometimes it takes less time. When she gets bored, she will let you know that it's time to proceed. (30% of the girls I had in my bed did so).
4. Again...DON'T RUSH. Slowly undress her (If you're both still dressed). Kiss her neck, slowly go down and lick / bite (not too hard) on her nipples (just don't overdo it). Play with her body with the tip of your tongue all the way to the bottom (Focus on belly...most girls love it).
5. Most women just love it when you lick their pussy. Go for it, it won't bite. First of all, use only the tip of your tongue. Go all the way around her p**** and slowly start licking on her clit. If you do it for some time she may have an orgasm. Concentrate on her clit for like 70% of the time. This turns girls on 100%!
I suggest you speak to her and ask her what turns her on. Tell her what turns you on too and prepare for a really hot sex! Don't be shy!
Try new things, positions etc. to add some contrast to your sex. Otherwise it will just turn into a routine and you'll get bored really soon.
All of above are from my own experience. Usually I have sex like 40-50 times a month, mostly are 1 night stands and some of my F-Buddy girls.
P.S. Be clean and fresh. Always take a shower before and after sex. TIP: After sex, ask her to have shower with you...this might turn into another great game that you will both like!
That is an easy one. Money!
I kid, I kid. Every girl is different and don't listen to the sage advice of other guys when it comes to sexual matters. Every girl is different and what may work on one will utterly fail on another girl.
What does seem to work is,
. Being nice to them
. Treat them with respect
. Make them happy
. Treat her like a princess
. And be honest with them
Do all of those things, and mean it! , and you'll be the luckiest boy on this planet while all your other friends keep on devising mathematical formulas and strategies to score.
Aww omg you had one of the best answer for this question (treat her like a princess!!!!!)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You're still a bit young to be worrying about stuff like this, you'll go through many or few relationships before you really know what works for you and her. Don't get hung up on boy talk - often times boys talk because they never got any and want to look cool.
Go at your pace and relax, and remember it's about you and her and everything will work out well.
Well depends on what kind of girl you're looking for. If you're looking for a girl that just wants sex, then I'm sure it doesn't take much.
But if you're looking for a real girl, she's going to want a real man. She wants an honest, trusting guy that will treat her right, and put her first. She wants him to be romantic, caring, thoughtful and mature. She doesn't want a guy that wants her for her body, but she wants a guy that wants her for who she is, and what she stands for.
This is awesome!!!!!!!!
Meanwhile I am the opposite of most girls... I don’t like it rough AT ALL. Rough makes me feel uncomfortable. I prefer gentler stuff. I know, I’m from another planet or something
sexually, umm teasinq mee >_< umm , touchinq the inside of my legg.
massage/rub her back! chicks love that:)
Actually I do like that. That does work. Hahaha
Lightly trace her nipples with your tongue and then blow on them softly.. feels amazing!
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