It is certainly not a new thing, people have been having anal sex for centuries, but now the western culture is opening up sexually a bit and we are socially OK to talk about it more. There are a lot of nerve endings in and near the ass and, if it is done right (and only if it is done right) it can be enjoyable, but if people don't know what they are doing, don't take their time etc, yes it will be a bad experience. I have had anal sex with a couple girls and they enjoyed it as much as I did (asked for it, so I know they wanted it) and a girlfriend from high school was completely hooked on it. She loved it more than I did (she's the one who got me to try it). So, no it is probably not for everyone, but yes people can and do enjoy it. However, I will never pressure a girl into having anal, I'll do it only if they want to try it out.
ThisIsn't a new obsession its been around for years its just has become more openly popular in the last few years. You asked why guys like anal sex.
WhyGuys like it.
ItsTighter than the vagina
ItGives them the dominace role
I ts tight
Its a new experience and feeling
A ndits "taboo".
As of 2002 a servey conducted suggest that roughly 45% ofew woman have tried anal. This was up previously from the 35% previously.
With that said more woman are trying in then in recent year so its becoming more comman.
AnalSex should NOT hurts. If it does your doig it wrong. I have had many girlfriends who where nervious or didn't even want to try it, however every when they finally did they loved it, and became just as enoying as vaginal.
Thanks - I like the list - super cool!!
Sorry for then crappy typing was on my phone : p
anal sex is a variation of penetrative sex that guys would love to indulge in. personally, I love anal and I don't see anything wrong with that as long as there is a mutual consent. it's like oral sex, which some of my girl friends frown upon, is fine to most of us in this age. maybe it's the variety of sex play that get the guys interested in the first place and I don't deny the role that p*rn played in feeding to this fetish in the guys. most guys I slept with is fine with vaginal and oral sex but if we were to be more adventurous that day, well, we do give anal a go. it's really up to the person, if she's OK with it or if she's totally turned off by it.
Well if you go to a popular p*rn site like p*rnhub.com you'll see that the front page is filled with like half of the videos involving anal sex. And most guys love p*rn. Anal sex is not so much a taboo thing any more, and young guys watch that and see a lot of those girls loving it and then think their girlfriend will love it. Regular sex and oral isn't enough for some guys anymore, that's boring sex to them now haha
As for me I've done it and it can be fun sometimes, I'd prefer vaginal sex though... plus anal is a hassle like you have to lube everything up and you can't just do it at anytime if you get me.. it can get messy lol
Anal beats vaginal anyday, mlady.
Just like Kristeeee said it was the wrost sexual experince she had evey had. Testing shows that 87% of women say they do not enjoy anal but do it to please there partner which is just sad. I myself hate anal sex. The ideal o it just makes me sick like you sh*t out of your ass who in the hell would want to put there d*** in that ewwww
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I don't think the anal obsession is "new" - it's just more common to talk about. I first had anal at 15 or 16. I wasn't pressured, we both felt it was the next natural step in our experimenting. As it is, I very much enjoy anal. Usually as part of DP with a dildo. Not all the time, of course, but it's fun when the time's right.
A recent national sex survey shows a high correlation between anal sex and female orgasms: link
Prior to this, I could take it or leave it. Now I'm interested.
Yea..that is interesting...I am thinking of the position he is in to put pressure on the clitoris from the OTHER side..It may not even be that...but it is interesting...
It's not new at all. It just wasn't really spoken about before in the past. It was one of those taboo things people did behind closed doors but never mentioned.
No anal sex - the concept - is not new. But there seems to be more emphasis on it - where as before it was usually once you were sexually confident with your partner, but recently it has become more of a thing in new relationships or even in one night stands. And as so many have said below - if done right it can be enjoyable - so no one has been talking about it,. But it seems from the girl talk that girls are not enjoying it, so assuming it is not being done right...(?)
It boggles my mind that some guys can't keep their d***s out of the wrong hole. I'm waiting for HIV-2 to arrive that's ten times worse than HIV. It would serve them all for sticking their d***s where it does not belong.
The reason my boyfriend gave to me for wanting to try anal sex was that he was told that it felt tighter, and thus better feeling for him. He said I would enjoy it too, turned out to be the worst sex I ever had. I wouldn't recommend it to any women.
Close minded bitch much?
Some girls sleep with too many guys... instead of just trying to be another guy they feel the need to be something new... afterall your p**** might be a little too loose.
Girls can be so insecure...! Ask me, I am one of them and insecure about things no one even notices!! Wish it would dissappear..!
I have had this discussion with my friend who is a researcher in cultural studies. We think it is as a result of p*rn influencing mainstream society, similar to other trends such as squirting, 3somes and trying sex with girls (even if you are not a lesbian).
My girlfriend enjoys anal and it was her idea to try it. Before we had been together she had been exploring her body which involved fingering her ass and p**** at the same time so wanted to feel a d*** in there. She enjoys anal but we only do it if she suggests it. To me it is too tight and it hurts my d***.
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