What is it with men and hitting the back of the throat?

OK I have read here a lot about oral sex and guys pushing girls head to hit the back of their throat right before they come. My guy is into it too, but I just don't know why hitting that area is more pleasurable for them? I have heard from a lot of guys that they love deep throat. how different is that from just regular oral? please help me understand why guys like it so much? thanks.
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  • I think there's probably more than one reason guys push girls heads down so much. I think it feels good to have more of it in our mouths, so naturally they go for that. I also think it's something of a power thing. Like that they can physically control us (if just for that brief moment) and make us take just a little more than we want to. They like to see us struggle with their dick a bit because it makes them feel like they're well endowed, almost to the point of being too much for us. I don't mean to say that every guy who has ever done this is thinking "suck it, bitch," just that there is something of a power dynamic at play. And I think porn plays a bit of a role too. If you look on the internet it seems like almost every other site involves girls deep-throating or even gagging on a cock. If this is what they're jerking off too in their fantasy world, it only makes sense that it would be what they want in real life.

    • This may be true for some men, but definitely not all. I'll tell you right now that it's not a power thing for me nor is it about my size. it simply feels good. Also those guys in porn that treat the women like they were born just to be abused by them ought to go to hell. I hate men like that and would be more than happy to castrate them with a firepoker.

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  • The reason behind the back-of-the-throat-thing is that it is sexual instinct to, to put it frankly, shove their penis us far up, or down in this instance, as they can. This is an instinct. It's purpose is to make pregnancy more likely. When men are given oral their penis is being put in a very similar environment as when they are having sex. Warm, wet, and soft. Their brain stem takes over subconsciously rather then their cerebellum. (I think it's the cerebellum at least, it might be the cerebral cortex specifically.) Basically our bodies are telling us to push up at the end so as to preserve the species more or less. This is the "scientific" explanation. If it is something that you don't like, make sure you tell him because it is more than possible to out-will the brain stem. Hope that helped.

  • I don't know.when you are about to cum.there is just something about trying to pull yourself as close to that woman as possible. We do it when we are having regular sex to if you think about it.Right as we start to ejaculate, haven't you noticed how we give a long hard thrust inward.driving inside as deep as we can. It is as though we have to have our penis as covered up with sensations as we can possibility get it. If it happens to be down your throat.then we want it deeper down your throat. It isn't always a sign of power or submission (though in some fantasies is definitely is).but sometimes it is just the reaction of having an incredible orgasm and our body needing to thrust deeper because of it.

    • Thanks..... makes sense!

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  • I have no idea why and it's not like I disrespect my girl or anything, it's just something I do. Maybe it's something I've grown accustomed too cause of all the porno's I've seen over the years.

  • is perverted but is hot