What would you do if your boyfriend wants to get himself Circumcised?

We are in a relationship since two years (he's 20) and we live each other. Our sex life also great but he wants to gets circumcised. He says it's his religious tradition to get circumcised before engagement. I don't want him to get hurt... What should I do?
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  • Me? I would really push him toward staying intact. There is no compelling medical reason for circumcision if you always have running water, soap and condoms (or, not condoms if you marry as virgins and have had baseline STD testing.)

    Religious circumcision is really this ancient act of dedicating your son's manhood to the faith, or dedicating your own. Don't you think God can recognize devotion and dedication in a way that doesn't mutilate your body?

  • Support his choice if that is what he prefers. Being circumcised doesn't effect sex, nor should it be cause for you to not want him to get the procedure done. Depending where you live, modern medicine and medical procedures as such are more well off than they used to be. There shouldn't be alarm for concern. It won't be painless but overall should be a day procedure.

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  • We cannot do anything. Let him do as he wishes. Fur you it's no pain, just a few days sex break. Sex with circumcised is pleasing as with an uncircumcised, do don't worry

  • He'll be alright. Trust me

    Also, sex is MUCH better, when he's cut, I GUARANTEE YOU

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  • Spend some time doing research so you know what it is he wants to do. Its his body and also, its a surgery, so he would be asleep for it.

  • If he’s 20 he’s past that stage in both Judaism and Islam. Ensure that he know’s you prefer him intact and repeat. There is no medical benefit doing it. Traditions are traditions, things people decided 2000 or 5000 years ago with the knowledge from then.

  • Up to him, its his dick to go chop up :P

  • Use a religious argument... "God created man with a foreskin, blah blah."

  • Converts to Orthodox Judaism do that. Ouch.
    Nothing. Give him time to heal. The upside it that he can have it done with precision so he can get maximum erected length.

  • We should accept the religious beliefs. It will hurt for 2-3days. And then he'll be fine. Just relax.

  • Support him. Let him do it. Take care of him after the operation.

  • Its his body his choice. I oppose circumcision but he is an adult and should be able to make his own choices about his own body regardless of the reason, even if others may believe its the wrong choice.

    • @esotericstory as long as he’s well and objectively informed...

    • @Boromir Yes true, it should be an informed decision. Its irreversible.

  • A little late for him to do that, that will take awhile to heal and I have never heard it done for that reason

  • I would be disturbed if my partner wanted to cut off part of his dick over a tradition, but I probably wouldn't be trying to marry a religious person in the first place. There's not really much you can do, but you can rest assured that it'll probably heal quickly and he won't be in any excruciating pain at least. I'd ask if there are any other reasons why he is set on this surgery that may be more pressing to him than religious tradition.

  • What would you have to do? I'd be pleased, but I wouldn't need to DO anything?

    What religion is that?