What is wrong with military guys?

so I've been in quite a while now and all girls ever want to do is hook up and have one night stands which is never a bad thing but it's like hard as hell to get a decent girlfriend as soon as I get deployed they cheat or run off or something anyone got anything?
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  • Yes, I have some insight. It's the 'type' of girls you are targeting or meeting. Not all of us will cheat, write you a "Dear John" letter or be a one night stand. You need to understand that it takes a VERY strong, mature, grounded and determined girl to date a guy in the military. They aren't aware of what your job entails such as training in remote locations with no contact, 6 month cruises and only getting to see you when you get approved leave. However, if she steps back and takes the time to get to know you personally, what dating a man in the military is about then time will tell. Meeting the right person always seems to be about proper timing. I suggest you keep your options open, and don't feel deterred if it takes awhile to meet your Ms. Right. You deserve the best and if it means waiting then so be it.

    • yea I agree I'm being really cautious, I was engaged and came back to find out she was with 3 other guys and now I'm like waiting until I'm 100% certian she will be the one

    • the problem is that there not many of those women left. Also, soldiers don't have the time to search for a girlfriend. They have busy lives.

    • I'm sorry to hear about your experience. I have heard TOO many stories about really good guys in the military getting cheated on, coming home to an empty house, Dear John letters blah blah. I dated a solider for a very long time and I never ever cheated on him. I respected him so much for his job, bravery, maturity and discipline. Stay the course, you'll find her.

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  • My boyfriend is in the marines and I know it's not the kind of relationship all people can handle. I probably wouldn't be with him now if I wasn't dating him before he got in and moved to california. There's just not enough time together and I wouldn't want to start a relationship with someone unless I knew for a fact I had a connection with them and had spent time with them. Some girls would be okay waiting months for a guy they'd only talked to on the phone or met a couple times. You'll find a good girl.

    • thanks for the tip

  • There's nothing wrong with military men. There's just something wrong with those girls that would do that.

    I know that if I ever love someone in the military and am committed to them, I would stay faithful and worry and think about, and wait, for them every single day.

    Right now, my best friend is at Marine Corps Boot Camp. I've been writing him letters since he left. He comes back September 16th! I'm so proud of him.

    • that is very sweet I wish more woman like you had that mentality

Most Helpful Guys

  • Well the thing about you is that military guys are sort of known to be that type of player, so when someone like you comes along it's just one of those things where they treat you just like the rest of them. I've met an overwhelming majority of military guys that just want their d***s tugged. You have to break from the mold that people think you fit and find these girls in the right places, and make sure they know what your intentions are (to be serious).

    • yea that's a good point it also helps if you can get away from bases because woman swarm here just looking for money and sex

    • Right. Military towns are full of mostly soldiers, so women tend to start expecting the same things.

  • absolutely nothing, my brother and a lot of my friends are in the military and I'm joining soon. Unfortunately, something about the military attracts the wrong type of girls, but that doesn't mean you can't find a good girl that loves you

    • like I said it's not a bad thing lol

    • well, I mean, like it attracts girls that just want you for sex and that's fine if that's all you want lol

    • well I'm in that transition phase where I want to keep sleeping with random chicks and where I want to settle down and I ain't seeing to much of the settleing down side

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  • Don't look for a girlfriend it's bad situation

    You'll be worried she's cheating & she'll be worried you're cheatibg

    Plus loyalty isn't something this generation is doing well in for relationships.

    • she better not think I'm cheating I go underwater in a submarine with all guys and we never pull into foriegn ports we just go out for 3 months and come home

    • lol there's a few girls scared their guy will go gay for a while ^ irrational but sometimes proven true

  • lol I gotcha man its just daunting for them you know with the deployments and all, it takes a special kind of women to date/ marry a guy like that, but they are the best, so stick it out man, I'm rooting for you

    • haha thanks man

  • i can tell you how I see it. well if I wouldn't want to get serious with someone in the military just for the fact that when you get deployed there is a good chance of you not returning, please don't get me wrong I thank everyone in the military for their bravery, and they are the best people to have as friends but I wouldn't be able to deal with the loss if something horrible ever happened. I know this is not much but I hope it helps and thank you so much for your bravery

    • yea it is difficult for a lot of woman to handle and I know there's that small percentage that can handle it and an even smaller percentage that is my type so I'm being extremly picky

    • And that is completely understandable. I'm sure it's hard to find someone who can handle it. But they're out there. :)

  • The military is for single people. I don't understand why you guys don't realize and embrace it.

  • it's hard cause what if you get deployed (is that the right word?)

  • sadly that's the love life of a soldier nowdays. If you are a soldier you should not try and find a girlfriend. Rather, just have hook ups or one night stands. Women nowdays are not as chastes as they were in the past. Women nowdays don't wait for their men while they are at war. Nowdays, they go to party and f*** other guys or girls at the party.

    • yep. Don't dare judge them though, just stick your d*** in them when they decide for you that it's 'your turn'.

    • unfourtunatly that's the sad truth

    • Women nowdays are not as chastes as they were in the past ^ At least women were chaste...it's been quite some time in history that men were ever chaste It's not just women cheating on soldiers plenty of soldiers cheat on their gf/wife

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