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What if you're still a virgin and your boyfriend won't wait for you?

i am a virgin but my boyfriend isn't and I want to wait but i"m scared he"ll dump me if I don't give in to his commands soon
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Most Helpful Girls

  • If your boyfriend cares about you and likes you a lot, he will be willing to wait. If he is not willing to wait then he clearly is not that in to you and you should end it with him before you get hurt. He should understand how you feel and respect how you feel. There is nothing wrong with waiting a good few months before sleeping with some one. Sit down and talk to him, let him how you feel about loosing your virginity. If he likes you and cares about you he will understand. If not move on.

    You are still young and have plenty of time. There are plenty more nice guys out there who will be willing to wait and understand.

    Don't give in until you are ready! If you are not ready and you do it, you will end up regretting it. Loosing your virginity is a special thing and it should be done with the right person at the right time.

  • dont do it if your being pressured into it. If he's not going to respect your wishes he doesn't deserve it. you should have the self confidence to respect yourself before someone else. But then again if you think your ready then go for it otherwise don;t give into it.

  • why would you want to be with someone who wanted you to do something you were against?

Most Helpful Guys

  • There are lots of dating options. It might seem like he is the one and only right now, but trust me, there are A LOT of eligible bachelors who will be more than happy to get to know you.

    Plus, if he is threatening you with dumping you if you don't have sex, he doesn't really want you anyway. He just wants sex. And even if you give it to him I will give you 99% odds you will end up split up a little ways down the road anyway.

    Better to cut and run before you are too invested and it hurts more, because it will happen sooner or later. Plus, I really don't think he is likely to be the type of guy you will want to be the father of your children or share a home and the rest of your life with if he would threaten to dump you because you weren't ready to put out soon enough.

  • It's really simple. If your boyfriend won't wait for you then you dump him before he dumps you. That'll take care of that! You don't need any command thing is a relationship. A relationship is suppose to be of mutual respect and caring for each others' needs. Not telling one another you have to do this or that and making them feel insecure. If you want to wait then wait and tell your boyfriend the reason your decision. He should respect your decisions when it comes to sexual matters.

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  • yeah, it's serious, please don't do it! if you have sex before you're ready you will regret it for the rest of your life! plus a guy who is pressuring you should not be allowed to have sex, he is not mature enough. I don't know him and I don't judge but just keep waiting! your virginity is so precious and the day you'll be ready and with a guy whom you love and whom really loves you, it will be way worth the wait!

  • If he's demanding it then chances are he's not worth having as a boyfriend in the first place, that means he doesn't respect you and your want to wait; there are better guys out there that not only will respect that, but also wait with you.

  • WOW! What is going on with you people? His commands? I don't know what's worse, him pushing you to give it up to him or you being scared that if you don't then he'll leave you. Don't you think that if he doesn't respect you enough now then he won't afterwards? If a guy doesn't respect your decision to wait then don't waste your time!

  • commands? he shouldnt be ordering you around on what to do, you can think for yourself, if he truly cares about u, he'll wait til ur ready

  • Because he wants sex, and he's not getting it from you.

    He's not bad for wanting it, and you're not bad for withholding it, but this relationship won't last without some adjustment. For everyone to get what they want--he, his sex, you, your virginity--you either need to let him cheat (with discretion, obviously) or end the relationship.

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