What is your idea of sexual tension between 2 people?

Do either one of them finally "snap" and confess their desire for the other? Can you please state examples of sexual tension?
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  • Me and a friend see each other a lot. She has hooked up with my best friend and I've stayed away from anything with her because of it. We've always had tension as in we flirt a lot in conversation, I've stayed at her place until all hours of the night and we often wrestle with each other in her bed. For ages, we held off. Eventually, we were lying on her bed and she rubbed my chin just enough to make me explode and start making out with her.

    I had no intention of doing it and thought I could control this tension, but I couldn't. It was like shaking a soda bottle and the cap just blew right off with tension.

    • This guy and I flirt like mad, he tears me like CRAZY and we "play argue" each other. Sexual innuendos also come into play like him joking that he's going to sell me to a pimp and I sell him to a madam (all joking of course). I like him and only hope he likes me. We are both shy & this has gone on 4 awhile. What do you suggest I do?

    • Well, do you want anything to happen? If so, play fighting wouldn't be a bad idea. It puts you two in close proximity to each other (Mainly your mouths). It gives him a golden chance to make a move OR if you want to, a chance for you to make the move.

    • He does this keep away game. He has something, even shows other people & if I ask to c it, he smiles big, says no & keeps it @ arms length. I go 4 it, we kinda wrestle. He blushes and suddenly says I have 2 go sit back down. It's happened several times. Lol he isn't mad we just get suddenly shy and awkward considering we are in public w people around. He laughs saying IM the one being disruptive! He plays keep away ALL the time & it drives me crazy! That a good sign?

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  • "Push and pull" is a type of sexual tension..like he comes up talks to you and his intentions are clear and you have an immediate attraction..but he walks away..while away your wanting to talk to himand hoping he comes back.(pull) he comes back and kinda of dis you... (push) your kinda of hurt he makes a joke and kinda flirtatious. (Pull)..now with every pull the attraction become deeper...if done right as in all cases the "girl" snaps. Guys can only ask..girls allow or disallow...

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    • girls allow? in your scenario you have her hanging around like a moron, being neurotic & eating up his bullsh*t.that wouldn't work in reality. I e where no one is delusional. you should meet some respectful people. if a guy came over& then took off for no reason.. id loose interest immediately-its obvious he plays games which is obnoxious& imo pathetic. & who the hell would be hurt by being insulted by a virtual stranger. you retort & depart . end of story. also no one gets this. if HE approaches he

    • is deciding FIRST. how is it her making a decision? he has to decide to approach-before she can decide to say yes or no. if the approacher does not approach & the approachee cant--then saying no is no different than not approaching. the approachee has no 'more' -if not less- choice than the approacher. in a situation with two people. no one person has more choice than the other. takes two to accept or reject each other. setting up rules just wastes time& energy & brain space.

    • Well, the guy I like does that to me. He sees me, smiles but won't come say hi. Then he walks by, (after I ignore him ignoring me) says hi yet doesn't stop, smiling like crazy. From a far, he looks at me and makes faces! It drives me nuts! And we even "play argue" via text even if we're in the same room!

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  • i think its there & you either jump on it or drag it put. but there has to be a spark to begin with. your feeling it-creates the tension. every minute you do nothing it gets more tense--unless you wait too long.. then it dies out.

    • yes! It sucks yet is so riveting. Have you every experienced it and finally got a resolve? I'm so worried that this is going to go on forever with this guy!

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  • you can't really put it into words, but it's when you both want to rip each others' clothes off

    • Ugh! Yes! This guy and I "play fight and play argue" and I swear! I want to punch him and make out with him at the same time.