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When boys have a small penis (question for girls)

Girls, what if you finally find the right guy. He is sweet, he does not look perfect.. But he is the most sweetest and funniest you will ever find. He will keep saying how pretty you are, hold your hand always, romantic, his family is great! But then.. You find out he has a small penis.. really small You would never be satisfied in sex. This is the first time I had a guy with a small one.. I really don't like it. But maybe I should not make a big problem over it.. Would you continue with him, or quit?
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  • Sex happens in the brain first and foremost. "Small" just means less likely to injure you. Rather than be lazy and complain, you should get creative. Seize the opportunity. And if all that matters to you is his size, then you'll never be satisfied. It's a destructively shallow way to look at life.

    It's one reason I'm glad that my girlfriend and I are long-distance. We have time to focus on each others' values and goals, rather than physical expectations. She doesn't know what I look like down there, and I have no idea what she looks like down there. But somehow, I don't see how that's important. After all...her and I are aiming to get married in two years' time. By then, money and family ties will matter more than anatomical sizes.

    And I'll be interacting with her face and hands a lot more than her vagina anyway. So loose or tight is just a spec to work with. If your school taught you to emphasize the size of a man's parts above anything else, then your "educators" failed you.

    Don't feel too bad: this is an epidemic in the "education" world, as it's being run by an industry trying to create sex addicts to prop up its business model. It doesn't care if you find true fulfillment or not.

    • how do you know you're not being catfished?

    • Because I've befriended several members of her sorority. They are putting their own reputations on the line vouching for her. Yes, a lot can happen in 2 years. But due to the long distance, there is a reduced risk of damage, other than emotional.

  • It seems you feel guilty because you are not satisfied with his size.

    Don't feel guilty. You have every right to eb attracted or not attracted to physical appearance . Including penis size. And no you are not shallow. If we are talking about marriage .. then it could affect your sex life for long time.. and who knows how long you can hold. Will you cheat? will you keep looking to other men ?

    A girl has the right for a satisfied love life . A penis is equal to a brain or a nose or whatever. AT the end of the day you are not happy. I personally wouldn't advise you to go on with this.. listen to yourself '' You would never be satisfied in sex'' .

    Dont let others decide or you .. trust your instinct and judgement. If you came to the conclusion that this is the guy you wanna take as a potential husband. and you would never be satisfied in sex .. then I wouldn't think it is wise to continue. Do it with no guilt or shame. It is your right . The most important thing is to do it in a civil way , and without hurting him.

    • Well, this is the second chance he got from me. (it happened so suddenly)! Because before, I went back to my ex boyfriend.. (long story). And now, I was meeting this 'nice guy' again (7months later or so), ONLY to say I was sorry for the way I left him last time. And after that he wanted to meet me again, I said maybe its not smart. But we did meet again & we kissed. I said again I'm sorry but I am not sure about this. because I knew from last time it bothered me that he has a small one..

    • Thank you for the BA :) and good luck !

Most Helpful Girls

  • Id not give up and try different things but I know what you mean. the guyabove has a point but just ignore him because guys can do it anywhere.. between a girls boobs, orally, butt, hand , thighs, and the lsit goes on... for girls its different.. either inside or by rubbing is all that will cause us to OG and if we can't be satisfied in one of those ways then its a little bit disappointing and discouraging and a bummer. just try different things and well, if you aren't going to be satisfied in there after trying , thennn... you will always feel this way and you will need to find someone else. Kinda a sucky reason to leave a guy but if you aren't being satisfied then you never will and you have to be compatible in that area... good luck

  • DO NOT underestimate the power of fingerbanging! How small are we talking? a small penis does not guarantee bad sex. There are so many different aspects to sex that do not involve penis vagina penetration . He might still be the right size to hit one of those little spots, if you don't experiment you will never know. Just because he looks small doesn't mean he can't satisfy you, have you even tried to have sex with him yet?

    • Maybe he is not good in finger banging also :P

  • Honestly I would depend on how attractive he was. With a combination of being sweet and attractive I don't think I would care about his penis size. Mainly because even guys with a big penis can be unsatisfying in the bedroom, for instance if they come too soon. You can always get creative with sex but you can't change ugly.

    • Well, I hope in such a situation, the guy gets to decide if he wants to be with you based on your preferences for size.

    • @lotus8 so he has to have a full head of hair and be tall to make up for a small penis lol?

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  • The size is defiantly a reason for pleasure, but it needs not to be longer or thicker for it. Anything above 3 inch or so is considered nice. Many things depends on technique and the way you respond each other. I am not circumferenced, and skin on it helps us to slide it inside her, thrust her in as she like and make it much enjoyable. It is something more then 6.5 inch (It depends how and from which side (upper or ball side) you measure and how erected it is. I feel it as all right as long as she is enjoying it, and like to have it ever.

  • You should dump him not because he has a small penis, but because you are unsatisfied with a quality that he has.

    For example a man has a right to dump a girl who gains 300 lbs in a month, when he happens to like girls who are thin.

    Its both cases its not because he has a small penis, or she's fat, its because there are people out there that would not be bothered or prefer a small penis or a woman who happens to be obese.

  • Sounds like you found a great guy, I'd advise you to stick with him, and find another lover on the side.

  • Well, that's why male enhancement pill invented to help a man and woman to enjoy sex.

  • There's another side to this equation. Why would he want to be with you? Why would he want to do this nice things for you when you feel this way about him?

    If I were him, I'd leave you.

    • He does not know, and yeah. If I were hem, I would have left to xD

    • Yeah, women, always manipulative.

    • lol

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