When grinding do you notice if a guy has a boner?

[Anonymous]

i go clubbing a lot, and sometimes will start grinding with a guy a friend asked me if I ever feel their boners while grinding and I don't think I ever have . . . maybe I've been too drunk to notice do guys usually get boners from grinding? girls, do you notice it?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I almost get a boner but the fear that people might see it and think it's funny always keeps me nervous enough to where it only gets half hard and the girl probably can't tell. Should I just let it go up if a girl is grinding me really good or would that be bad?

[Asker]

i think keeping control of it is a good idea you don't want to freak anyone out

[Opinion Owner]

lol OK thanks.

[13until5]

i feel the exact same way. I start to get hard then I slow down and let in calm down. I never want her to know I would really like to know how girls feel about it. do you care if we are hard dancing with you?

[Asker]

i don't really care if I did, I wouldn't be dancing that way in the first place

[Opinion Owner]

So when you say keep it under control not to freak anybody out you mean other people but not you right? So do you take it as like a compliment if you're grinding and give a guy a boner then? Sorry I know this seems like trivial BS but it's late, I'm bored and curious, and the subject has already been brought up so I just figured I would ask out of curiosity.

[Anonymous]

i usually dont, unless it has been going on for like 15-20 minutes, then I start to get aroused. and if I get one they def. notice

[Opinion Owner]

go me for having the best answer without answering the question :D thanks

[sportychicky]

I have noticed a few guys but not all. Plus I might be like you and to drunk to notice all the time.

[Asker]

the idea of a guy getting a boner while grinding had never even crossed my mind until she asked and now I want to try and notice if the guy I'm dancing with has one or not, but I always forget haha

[sportychicky]

ha ha, I know I do like making them hard it's always fun lol. :)

[MrGreen5000]

What do you like about it? Is it funny? Or does it make you feel powerful?

[Anonymous]

I haven't, but apparently a guy got one one time? I don't know. I was probably too drunk as well.

[hunterfan]

this also poses another question from a guys point of view, does it make it too awkward when a guy pops a tent while your grinding on him and you notice he did, or do you enjoy it?

[Asker]

if its dark, and in a club or whatever, I don't think it's awkward no one else can really see it

[hunterfan]

thanks for the feedback, now if I go dancing and I start getting aroused I won't go to order another drink ill just stick with it

[Asker]

i feel like you should kind of figure out if the girl knows, and if she's into it as much as you are because if she isn't she might be pretty surprised / freaked out

[hunterfan]

welllllllllllll, I don't really talk to many people up here but I do dance with a ton of people, and I do not start dancing with random people, they come up and dance with me, so they want something whether its to have a good time, or to get laid (which I do not do one nights stands personal preference) so they will either laugh or get turned on.

[Apath4]

yes. its hot I wish I was better at it.

[kairon156]

you could train with me. LOL JK.

[Mark987]

100% they do.. depending on how she moves her ass. I know a girl that made a guy finish by grinding lol

[MylesF]

Sounds like you haven't been grinding on the right guys! If a guy has a decent-sized package and a healthy sex drive, you should feel it between your cheeks. To enhance the sensation, make sure to wear a skirt with no underwear.

[Anonymous]

when I was younger I used to get a boner like all the time.

I used to have friends that were freaks and really hot.

with big a$$ and boobs. they used to bent over and

grind all up on me lol I couldn't resist. No lie at times I even

used to get wet, I so wanted to pull my pants down lol

But as I grew older I matured (I guess) and just learned to

relax it and concentrate more on the music and dancing.

I'm sure they felt my boner, they would give me this weird

look lol with a smile ha ha good times good times