When a guy tells you that he's never masturbated before?

One night I was with my boyfriend and he was really horny. And he wanted to have sex, but I was like super tired, so I was like no, you'll just have to go masturbating and he told me that he's never done that before? Now, he's a really sweet guy but I thought that everyone's masturbated before? Just wondering if you guys or gals have? And yes we are both kind of young, we're 18, but still.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Okay. If he's a straight guy, he's been spanking it since he was 11 or 12. He might have lied because young men can be somewhat embarrassed about their sexuality. See, older men, like me are Straight up, because we've got nothing left to hide, and also because we are a lot more confident around women, because we're a lot more experienced.

    Believe me, if he's your BF, he find you hot -- and he's probably spanking to you at least once a day at his age, maybe two to three. You probably just "caught him with his pants down" with your questions.

    Cool?

  • Lmao. He definitely lied. He is a guy? And breathing? He has a penis? Then he's bumped one off before. Maybe he doesn't want to admit it to a girl or he was making a last ditch attempt at sex but he's lying. Every guy without serious issues masturbates. Its just a question of how often.

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  • Maye he really never has. My finance also never has... maybe you could show him how to do it and help him please himself. There's nothing wrong with masturbating so let him know that also. :)

    • Some people haven't done it before. I haven't. Some people are just able to quell their need by not thinking about it.

  • I agree with straightman - if he wants to have sex there is NO WAY he hasn't masturbated. Period. And yes, I do believe everyone masturbates eventually, girl or guy.

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  • I have to agree with all the other guys he has done it before every guy has done it at least once if they are 18 or older!! Even if it was by accident but they have done it!!

  • Some guy's honestly haven't Why I don't know cause I'm not one of them. But some I guess just don't feel the need maybe. THere are often times where I get so busy, that it just doesn't cross my mind. Maybe this is perhaps one of many reasons as well.

  • He lied or has no sex drive. Since he wanted sex...he lied.

    • I don't agree... some people just don't do it that's all

    • Oh please, even the most conservative and jesus loving, and worshiping guy has done it. Now, if you told me a girl hasn't done it and she is 25, then I would believe that, but not a guy. You don't wake up with a boner every morning, do you?

  • He must have been embarrased to admit it. There's no way that a guy can have an erection and not masturbate. That would be like having to sneeze and then not sneezing.

    Not to worry though. As long as he took care of it when he got home, things should be fine. ;-)

  • Some people are just shy about it but yes everyone has done it. Its human nature!