When guys masturbate over you?

If a guy masturbates over you does he find you hot/attractive and therefore want to have sex with you? Surely guys don't do this over ugly girls? Also if a guy really wants to have sex with a girl does he find her hot? Surely men don't want to have sex with hideous girls apart from when drunk?
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  • It doesn't necessarily mean you are PRETTY/BEAUTIFUL but you have some parts he finds sexually attractive. I've heard of guys having sex with an ugly girl because she had a nice body or was rumored to be good in bed. You would be surprised how low some guy's standards are. Ever heard the quote "fat/ugly girls are like mopeds: fun to ride until someone finds out"? Just because a guy will f*** you doesn't mean he thinks your hot or even attractive. Some guys PRETEND that they only have sex with pretty girls to save face and look cool in front of their friends, but really its not always true. All the ugly girls I know get d*** on a regular basis. I hope you don't get your self esteem from a guy finding you sexually attractive because it's virtually meaningless as it doesn't take much for most men to think about f***ing a girl, or actually f*** her

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  • I masturbate over my girlfriend becuase I find her attractive unlike any person I've met and I'm deeply in love with her which makes me feel something stronger.

    I don't just want us to make love because I think she's attractive, but because I want to take our relationship further and enter a new phase in a relationship. I suppose I don't look it like other guys do. But that could just be because I'm in love.

    That's just my perspective of your question. If a guy hits on you who you don't really know, chances are he wants to get in your pants depending on what you say.

  • Just like women, men only want to have sex with those they find attractive.

    However, the minimum bar is a lot lower for men.

    You have to consider that for most of human evolution, a man's instincts were thinking 'is this the best possible mother I can get in the next 20 minutes?' because If someone better came along in 20 minutes, he could try to get her pregnant too.

    Women on the other hand might have only had and raised a child every year and a half or so. So a womans instincts are asking 'is this the best father I can get inthe next 18 months'?

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  • I wouldn't say I've actually masturbated over a girl before, but I've only ever had sexual thoughts towards a girl I've found attractive. If that answers your question. And yes, I would find find her attractive if I wanted to have sex with her.

  • can't say that I've done that, but you're right I don't think any guy would do that over a girl he doesn't find attractive...

  • Have to get away from the generalizations here.

    Q 1)I cannot speak for all males...but ..if it was me...well I would always want to have sex with a female that I found attractive..if you are speaking of masturbation by memory..I would summon up the best, most attractive females that I could think of..whether they be celebrities or classmates or friends. I would GUESS that all males summon the sexiest that they can think of...

    Q 2 & 3) Males can be funny critters...I would rarely or never have sex with a female or an animal or a knothole...but some guys would...and some of them would not have to be drunk...in my case..I would have difficulty having sex with a "hideous woman" or an animal or a knothole..but might...MIGHT just have better luck sober than drunk...Clear As Mud?

  • if I masturbate over you, I find you attractive, and want to have sex with you. I wouldn't touch a girl I don't find attractive even if I was drunk.

  • Yes, no, yes, yeah that's true.

  • I think you'd be surprised what some (even sober) guys would do to get some poon. Yeah, most guys want to have sex with an attractive girl, but having beer goggles and being very horny aren't all that different to be honest.

  • yes, but just because he wants to f*** you, doesn't mean he wants to date you

  • Often times you have hit it right on the nail head, men often fantasize when they are having sex as well this is something from my understand that many girls do too.