When she's giving you a handjob...

and you're about to finish, what would you prefer she do? Like, should she put her mouth on your d*** and swallow it, or just let you finish? I usually swallow when I give blowjob's, but I was giving my mouth a little break and jacking my boyfriend off and he told me he was about to finish and I didn't really know what to do. If that makes sense. So what should the girl do when you're about to finish and she's giving you a handjob?
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  • Both hand and oral depend on stimulation building "credits" of arousal to reach the moment where orgasm takes over. Not enough stimulation = insufficient arousal. Slowing or stopping during the process stops the accumulation of credits (can't get over the top) or even a loss of credits and eventually arousal and erection diminish completely. You probably experience the same thing when he does you.

    A HJ alone relies on building credits through the quantity of aggressive stimulation. To do that, you have to have a good grip, fast motion and enough lotion so there is lots of sensation without abrasion. A good BJ adds mouth and tongue stimulation to a HJ; adds credits through quality stimulation: Sucking; lips concentrating on the collar of the cap; tongue swirling and slot probing. The most satisfying orgasm for me is to start with an aggressive HJ and add the BJ as the finale approaches.

    For a HJ alone, be alert to the approaching orgasm. An increase in hardness and precum fluid flow accompanied by deep and erratic breathing should tell you. When ejaculation starts, stop all motion for the first 3 squirts or so (until they begin to slow down) and hold the penis with a firm grip during them. When they slow down, stroke twice or so between squirts until they stop and then hold the penis in a firm grip for 15 to 30 seconds. After that, give the penis two or three full length outward-only strokes with a tight grip like emptying a toothpaste tube. This will be quite satisfying without using your mouth at all.

    Finishing a HJBJ should involve rapid hand stroking with intense sucking, bobbing and tongue play at the cap. The hand grip should be lighter than a HJ alone because its all that's needed and won't impede the BJ credits. When ejaculation begins do as with a HJ (stopping all motion) but with your mouth gripping the cap tightly and sucking (not too much that can prolapse the slot) and then bobbing/sucking/stroking between the slower squirts until they stop and then holding the penis tightly under moderate vacuum. Use a nursing-style suck for the "emptying" phase.

    Sounds "procedural" but this works for me every time.

    • What you do with the ejaculated load afterward doesn't matter so long as you receive it in your mouth at the end.

  • Swallowing is a safe-sex no-no.

    So if we're in bed then getting it all over me or herself is fine. We're going to take a shower anyway.

    If I'm finishing then she can "cap" it with her mouth if she's not into swallowing, and its still cool. Like I said, shower comes later.

    I was with a lady friend who would "catch" it in her mouth just so she could spit it in the sink. She hated changing her sheets. It was kinda ass-backward because when she came there would be this huge wet spot left in the sheets anyway.

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  • it all depends on positioning...

    if we're lying in bed... I usually aim it up at him.. specially if he's a "shooter" lol...

    if I'm kneeling before him, topless or naked, then I paint my chest...

    but unless I've never given him a bj before, I always suck the last bits out... and clean him up with my tongue...

    • Wow what an answer!

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  • Swallowing is always a good option, but otherwise, she should aim it at her face or boobs. If she's doing the HJ, then she's the "aimer", and responsible for where it goes. IMO, the "right place" is somewhere on her.

    And, yes, do NOT stop until he's completely empty.

  • Why don't you ask him? How can I know what HE wants?

    If it was me, I would just want you to continue stroking while I'm cumming.

    There are two reasons why guys like to come in a girl's mouth: (1) they get some sort of pleasure from the idea that their come is in your body; (2) when getting a blowjob, they prefer to not have to worry about pulling out, and just be able to ejaculate when they feel like it. Personally, I don't really care about (1) at all, but I do like (2). So if you're blowing me, I'd prefer to just come in your mouth when I get there, but otherwise there would be little point in you stopping what you're doing so that my come ends up landing in your mouth. I'd rather if you just continued what it is that made me cum. Makes sense?

  • Swallow

  • I would not care...could do w/e she liked...(:(:(:

  • I think its all good whether she swallows, gets it all over her or all over the place. I guess it depends on time and place. Of course if it something quick under a table or in the car then you are going to want no mess but if it is at home then you anything is good.

  • I think the whole swallowing thing is over rated. I've been with girls that do and girls that don't. Honestly it doesn't make a diffrernce to me - what matters most is you keep the motion on my shaft until I'm done cumming. Don't stop as soon I start comming - its like pulling the rug out from under your orgasm. If you dont' like swallowing - go to just the tip in your mouth, keep stroking his shaft and when he's done, go spit it out in the sink. I have absolutely zero problem with that.

    If you don't like that route - I don't know if there is anything hotter than finishing on her face or chest. Either one cleans up quickly and its hot especially if she does her best to act like she's being showered with hundred dollar bills. Total turn on.

  • ur a keeper,the boobs are sexy or the face too or you can finish him in your hand too

  • HJ finishes can be very sexy. When you know he's about to burst, sexily tell him you want to see him cum. Tell him how much you want to see & feel it run down your hand. Tell him when he's done you want to lick it off of him & your fingers. I can assure you, it will be the hottest HJ he has ever gotten.

  • We don't care where we finish, as long as we just do.

    I don't find creaming on the hands while she keeps pumping. Face, feet, mouth, t*ts - it is all good.

    Less and less females like to swallow so I don't even think of that as a first option anymore.

  • Depends. Sometimes my girl finishes with her mouth, sometimes she makes me finish on her, or sometimes she asks me to finish (usually also endig up on or all over her).

  • The one and only time I've ever received a handjob, it was in the car (she was driving). She pulled off to the side of the road and finished me off with her mouth (swallowed), as if she'd been giving me a blowjob the whole time. In that case, a much better idea than just letting it blow all over the place.

    But if it had been at home or something, she could have made me come on her face or t*ts, or swallowed. It'd be hot either way.