When should you give a blowjob?

[Anonymous]

I'm curious from both guys and girls, how long should you be dating/talking/hanging out with a guy before you can give him a blowjob without seeming slutty?

[xemilyonfirex]

I have always preached against doing anything sexual with someone way to fast. Especially with someone you hardly know. I've only slept with one guy (we had sex like 2 weeks into our relationship and we lasted 3 years together). I know it was really soon but it felt right. Speed up to my new boyfriend, This is our second week together and I really wanted to go down on him so I did. We've talked, he knows I'm not a slutty person, and it didn't make him think I was slutty. It just escalated to that and I have no regrets :)

[doubltymrdrewls]

If things don't work out with him.. will you be my girlfriend? I'm sorry, that's just awesome. I'm jealous.

[Atomizer]

I vote for no sex until you have a serious, committed, exclusive, monogamous relationship.

This means you take time to know one another. A series of three-month "serious relationships" are usually an excuse to have sex.

Wait. There's no time table that applies to every situation. But wait. You'll respect yourself more in the long run.

[dave216]

I would say directly after he has given you your first orgasm with him. I do not believe in time tables. When you have become intimate enough to allow him to get you off, you should be far enough along to do him. That might be some time after the wedding, or it might be on the first date. Situations and moods are all different.

[Jackdajerk]

2 weeks maybe, less. a week.

[chettah-two]

Probably after he asked you...

That said when it feels right, I think u'll know...

If you are not sure, its probably not the right time to do it...

[Kayaking]

There is this strange, ancient philosophy that they used to call "marriage", "commitment". Not sure what they mean, but that used to be a pretty good standard. Not being judgemental, but it sho is dif now.

[John-Bee]

You said it. It's an ANCIENT philosophy! So were Chasity belts & sacrificing virgins.

[Kayaking]

And your advice is? Pretend it''s your daughter.

[BikingTrail]

I dont think there's a specific time, its whenever you feel the time is right and things click emotionally. I've got some on the first date before, it was amazing and I didn't judge them in a negative way at all, Once I was at a mall and a woman started talking to me (she recognized me from a dating site). We hung out for a few hours , at a park then a beach then she invited me over to her place and sucked me, and then again in the morning. it was a lot of fun