When would a guy spoon with you?

the question says it all.. in which cases would you guys spoon with a girl in your bed. the situation is: you`re not a couple, but you like each other. is this always done on cases guys hope to have sex? or also when they feel affection to the girl?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • When I like a girl, I want her close to me, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I want to hold her and protect her. I want to feel her warmth against me, and to feel the soft curves of her body. I may want sex, but as much as I like and want sex, I want her near even when I'm not in the mood for sex.

    I know guys who get annoyed when their girl wants to sit next to them, much less cuddle or spoon, and I can't help feeling that these guys are morons who have no idea what they are missing.

    • great;)

  • It can be a precursor to sex, or it can be after...OR...without sex even being in the thought process, it could just be for the closeness of genuine intimacy like Alpha93 said. It has a VERRRRY calming effect.

    • yes it`s very calming and intimate.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'd say at the very least it implies some level of physical attraction, but that doesn't have to mean the guy is looking for sex. I do it for comfort and quite a few of my guy friends that I've spooned with knew they weren't going to get any. They seemed fine with that. I think it has the potential to be very platonic.

    • i like what you say about the platonic potential;)

  • It doesn't necessarily mean he wants to have sex, although I'm sure he wouldn't turn it down lol. It's more about the closeness and affection.

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  • We cuddle for the same reasons girls cuddle.

    • sure but people are different that`s why i`m asking.

    • People are only different to a certain degree. We all enjoy cuddling for 2 reasons. 1) We want to lay down and feel close to someone. 2) We want sex. There's a very rare exception that people will cuddle for warmth but I'm assuming your question isn't based on the fact that people have access to housing or heat. We cuddle for the exact same reasons.

    • thanks

  • It has been so long since a guy spooned with me. That was long long before I married a woman.

    It's nice though.

    • ;)

  • What does it mean "to spoon with" someone?

    • Like how when you stack spoons on top of each other. Except imagine humans doing that. You both lay in the fetal position and spoon. The boy can be on the outside or the girl can. The guy on the outside is best though ;-)

    • Ohhh.. Interesting! :-P

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  • I spoon when I want her close to me. Has nothing to do with sex.

    • great to hear. it`s not that i`m against sex after spooning, but just was curious.

  • I do it because its relaxing and comforting, I may not want sex but I have to be attracted to her.

    • thanks that`s what I needed to know;) I mean if he`s attracted to the girl or not;)

  • "Spooning" is great after "forking".

  • I love to spoon because it really is very comforting.

    • but would you do it with any girl though?