When you get into making out, who opens the bra? The guy or the girl herself?

Question

What is more sexy to you? If you notice, in the movies, it is always the girl who does it. I wonder if it is completely the opposite in reality.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

It depends!

When I was in HS and first dating, I was VERY motivated to get bras off girls, and learned the one-handed pop method like a pro. My second girlfriend thought she'd fool me one day and wore a front-clasp bra, but the joke was on her, because you can get those off in about a quarter of a second!

These days, my girl will pretty much take her bra off as soon as she comes over, or sometimes won't even bother to wear one in the first place if she knows she's coming over (she might keep one in her purse just in case). The girls I'm with pretty much come to realize that bras are just in the way most of the time when I'm there.

But sometimes, she'll wear a special bra, or maybe just bought a new one, and wants to show it off. In that case, it's usually back to me taking it off.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Oh I totally remove it. But I'm on the dominant side, could be related. And you mean remove the bra? Opening doesn't do much unless you remove it too :P

Screamo-Lu · Accepted Answer

I usually do it myself. I like to strip slowly and teasingly, right out of his reach. When guys take your bra off they do it really fast, like they're flinging the lid of a pizza box or something. I get more turned on by doing it myself and watching him watch me.

carinabina820 · Accepted Answer

Depends on who can do it faster...if the guy does it before I can, then he does it. If not, I will do it myself...usually they get confused (those bras are tricky to unhook). It's usually the guy when I have a front hook bra or a sports bra.

queenofpeen · Accepted Answer

I usually do it. Quicker, easier, makes me feel sexy, he gets to sit back and watch.

cun7n1nja · Answer

I usually do it myself, just because he's usually undressing while I do it. Sometimes I'll leave it on and he'll undo it at some point, but usually we undress ourselves, we rarely undress each other all the way.

springdragonfly · Answer

guy. his hands are there anyhow. i only do it if I am teasing or frustrated that he is taking too long.

loudman1994 · Answer

I've always done it. Just the way it goes because my hands are usually already back there.

popsilicious · Answer

oh my man dives straight in and unhooks ... he's an expert

KimmyB · Answer

Some guys seem to have trouble with it so I just do it myself, unless they go for it then I let them try. :o)

Shea25 · Answer

guy always does it, I only do it if it is a complicated hook.

A_20Chick · Answer

The guy I don’t think I ever had to do it oh wait yes I did but I took his virginity he had no idea what h was doing poor guy

PoeticNinja · Answer

With his mouth.

xnikkixstarrx · Answer

My boyfriend does

Xwtxx · Answer

I am the one remove her bra.

Carrie123 · Answer

I prefer it when the guy does it.

Anonymous · Answer

Really how old are you?

Anonymous · Answer

He does. An animal imao :D

Anonymous · Answer

i wouldn't mind if I had to do it...if it had to come of it that way eventually...but id much rather prefer he strip me down makes things hotter and him- manlier