When you had Sex for the first time was it Disappointing at all?

Was anybody first time Disappointing at all? Like it still felt good it just didn't live up to your expectations?
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  • well my first time was a couple months ago with my boyfriend (we're both 17 years old and we were both virgins)...before we did it I was really nervous but also kind of excited at the same time. he was also pretty nervous. I was shocked that it didn't hurt as much as it did(probably because he got me wet with fingering and we also used lube). but it didn't feel great the first time and it kept slipping out a little bit cause we're both inexperienced haha. now everythings good and it feels great (:

  • Actually I went in with low expectations, and I was actually impressed. I even told him, "I thought it'd be worse" but I'm glad I wasn't let down. The trick is to go in with low expectations, if it goes well then you're impressed and if it doesn't well then you didn't expect it to anyway.

    • Good point.

  • Yes, I was disappointed. Wasn't pleasurable for me whatsoever. And to add to all this, he didn't even give me a ride home afterwards...I had to call my sis; needless to say, she wasn't very happy. Wish I would've saved it for someone who actually cared about me.

    • He didn't even give you a ride home!? wow. Just wow.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It didn't last long enough and I was far to nervous. That's what you get for being 12 when you lose your virginity. I imagine many others are in the exact same boat. I slept with that girl many many times in the next two years following. None of it was all that awesome. I didn't start enjoying myself and having good sex until my late teens when I had been with a couple other girls.

  • i don't remember exactly but I don't remember being disappointed. I think I was already under the impression that it may not be amazing, but I'm sure it was good enough because I was pumped to do it again and again and again and again...

    • wow it must have been a while ago if you can't remember.

    • i'm 30. lost my virginity at 17 so yeah it's been a while

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  • haha hell no! I lasted all of 5 minutes. but with lots of practice I have masterd my skill. it just takes hard work and dedication lol.

  • Shit, I lasted maybe a minute. Of course it was disappointing.

    But yeah, we were both expecting that going in, and with a lot of practice in a short period of time, it improved rather dramatically.

  • i wasn't expecting much my first time XD I knew it was normal for it to be kinda lack luster the first time. So it wasn't disappointing. I guess it depends what you expect from it.

  • I did it with someone I loved. We had planned it. It was terribly painful and he lasted forever (in fact he didn't come I asked him to stop after 10 minutes). But he held me when I cried from the pain and kissed my forehead and told me how much he loves me. It was under the moonlight in a cottage we had rented. It was beautiful but understandably painful. It was what I had expected. I felt vulnerable but wrapped in his love.

    • Wow...thats so sweet and amazing. I hope my first time is like that :(

    • Research loads and find a safe place to do where you can cuddle undisturbed all night. Going home after that without the guy to hold you would have no felt good.

    • Is dying a virgin really so bad?

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  • yes because the girl kept screaming no and telling me to get off.

  • yeah it was a total let down largely because I used a condom and couldn't feel anything and because I was nervous.

  • For me yes! he was so small! I only felt him enter but after that I couldn't feel anything! I got kinda bored in the middle so I'd ask him to kiss me (no he wouldn't do so willingly) I was super horny and really wanted to orgasm so I kept getting him hard! he was so mad because he said I was "needy" but in reality he never tried to please me!

    • You expected an orgasm from him his first time? You demand the world don't you. It took years of practice before I got to that point. Mind you I had given a girl an orgasm through oral when I was a virgin but I was so young and dumb I didn't even know she had had an orgasm.

    • he never fingered me, never gave me oral, and if you knew how easy I orgasm you'd understand! and actually I don't ask for much in relationships! and who said it was his first time? I was #14 for him and he always bragged about how he can always get a girl to orgasm!

    • Sorry your guy sucked. He was obviously just in it for himself. Sadly, there are far too many guys like that, but there are also plenty of guys who CARE about pleasuring their girl too. Hopefully you find a much better guy next time.

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