When your getting fingered what do you do ?

My boyfriend wants to finger me. I want him to but I'm nervous. Obviously it'll be my first time. I'm curious on what I should do when it happens. What do I expect? I want to know all the details and everything so I wouldn't be so shocked when he actually does it.
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  • It is okay to be nervous. It is your first time and with our society and how it makes sex wrong it is normal to be nervous. If you are ready for it then you can just relax and enjoy it. He will probably not really know what to do either, so take is slow. If he is doing something that hurts then stop him or suggest something else. It should be pleasurable and he will probably go straight for your vagina, so have him take is slowly.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You should expect it to feel weird. It might even hurt a bit the first time. Trim nails is imperative! There's nothing particularly you should do, lie back and enjoy it! Run your hands along his back, through his hair, do whatever his movements make you feel like doing. You could always do it to yourself first if you're really nervous. It'll be different when someone else does it but at least you'll have an idea.

  • There isn't really a set list of things to do but just relax and enjoy it. If he looks at you smile let him know you are enjoying yourself (and I promise you will). Don't be nervous about it just let him do his thing and do what feels right.

    if you want to know what it feels like before he does it do it to yourself first then you won't be so nervous.

    hope I helped

  • well, first make him cut his fingernails, then wash his hands, and when he does it it will feel weird at first, but just tell him to kind of explore with his fingers, and when you feel something you like let him know.

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