Where is the clit? and how do you touch it?

with out hurting the girl.
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  • Really good concern, wish more guys worried about that - they do not seem to realize it mattes. :-)

    As long as you are not scratching it or jamming your fingers into it, squeezing your really hard, or biting it , you should be fine.

    I think it is equivalent to the nipple or testicles , as far as sensitivity... Which is good if touched properly - amazing & if done wrong or not at all - bad.

    Instead of thinking how to get her to orgasm, just think f it as playing with it..

    It feels so good when a guy is patient & just explores the layers on TOP of the hole, for a lot of woman it is the stuff on top that really feels good, so fingering inside the hole is not so exciting.

    Just think of how you would like someone to play with your sensitive parts - balls, nipples ,TIP of penis - to figure it out...

    I find it much more of a turn on if the touch is very light a lot of the time, you can go fast and light at the same time.

    Play around start gentle & see how she reacts.

  • The clitoris is at the top of the vulva where the thinner inner labia come together. It is covered by a small hood of skin. Here are some pictures that may help you recognize it:

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    • Make sure she is turned on and lubricated before you touch it.

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  • You'll learn the basics, here

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fvvpVVQGUtc&feature=related...and

    to touch it, you'll just have to be mindful of her breathing, facial expression, what have you

  • If you have to ask...ask her !

  • r you really in ur 20s?

    • Nope

  • My boyfriend is awesome at it! But he wasn't always that way, I remember when he first did it 5 years ago.. it took practice.. I had to be vocal about what I liked and you will need to not be afraid to ask her, the only way to learn is to try it and be vocal.. With a finger or mouth and a little teeth is ok.

  • I AM THE CLIT COMMANDER

    • Definately one of my favorite moves haha

    • Meant movies* not moves

  • WTF?!?!?

    Dude, google images is your friend. Seriously. Or even better, go watch some porn.

    "how do you touch it?"

    WITH YOUR HAND, FINGERS, LIPS, AND/OR TONGUE. (that's just if you mean YOU touching it physically)

    It will NOT hurt as long as you don't push in too much. Slow, circular motions or rapid, up/down and/or side to side motions.

    My man, seriously, this has got to be one of if not the dumbest question on this site.