Where and how do most guys get their "game" to know how to pull girls? did their dads teach them?

or their brothers or friends? or were they born with it? because it seems for the overwhelming vast majority of guys, they are instinctively naturally born knowing how to approach and talk to his, how to get a girlfriend, I'm talking about guys that got there first girlfriend in the teenage years and lost there virginity at that time, its like from the moment guys hit puberty, because puberty is around the time we start getting attracted to the opposite sex for us humans, most guys were born with the confidence and social skills that are required in order to get a girlfriend, it was all common sense for them geeze and it still isn't for me
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I hate the way it is
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Seriously why should I believe I will get a girlfriend?
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I hate the system
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  • My friend and I used to have the same problem and we had different ways of achieving success.

    He took a good look at himself in HS, and realize to stop giving a sh*t about getting girls and to just get girls. He's had a lot of dates after that and a couple of gfs.

    I, on other hand, learned from websites and pickup artists. Their methods never really meshed with me, because they sought one-night-stands, where I was looking for relationships(it's how I'm made). Then I learned about this thing called "kino," and it works. With it, I didn't have to learn to be a different man, I just had to learn to let them I know I'm awesomer than the other guy.

    The reason why you are not getting girls is because you over-think the game. In reality talking to the opposite sex is a skill, like learning a trade. If you are unconfident, then go gain some by talking to other guys, learning new methods, start talking to girls.

    • because it seems like it is instinctively natural for most guys, as in they were born with game, born knowing how to approach and talk to girls in order to get a girlfriend, I often have the self doubt in my mind that you either have it or you don't

    • BULLSHIT! All game is natural to all men! Think about this, would you be born if your dad had no game, or his dad before him? NO! So all the game you need is in your genes already. Stop comparing yourself to others and run your own race (something I learned from my gf).

    • well then why do I struggle to attract, pull girls, get a girlfriend then? that should be the answer that I don't have game, so are you saying it is learned?

  • I really wonder too, am curious as well

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  • Don't hate the Game hate the Playa's broski!

    • well that helps, lol

    • By the way, at your update, there is no system, there is no game, there are no players; we made it up. It's all bullsh*t. I was hoping you'd come to that conclusion on your own.

  • I actually practice with willing female friends. It's quite fun! Mock dates and conversations with critiquing works really, really well.

  • Most guys I think live and learn. You adapt your social skills as you go. To be honest I don't really pay that much attention to pulling in girls or game. I just do what I love and if I'm out and about ill interact with women when I feel like it.

    If you want to get some flirting tips you can watch a ton of videos on YouTube. I find some of them to be helpful with flirting/interacting.

  • They have learned through rejection.