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Where should I come when I pull out?

My girlfriend is going on the pill and doesn't want to use condoms anymore. I've never had sex without a condom and I'm a little nervous about finishing inside her. Is it acceptable to pull out even if your partner is on the pill? Also, I hear people talk about pulling out all the time but what do they normally do with the sperm? Do I try to do it on a towel or something, or is it pretty much normal just to let it out on her stomach? What do most people do?
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  • Some people do use a condom, or pull out, in conjunction with the pill. Anything that improves your odds against pregnancy isn't all bad. As for your question, my partners have generally done it on my belly when they pulled out. I think that is the generally accepted place to do it, and it's probably the easiest place for you to do it. It's definitely messy, so you might want to talk this over with your girl before surprising her with a sticky pool of cum.

  • While there shouldn't be too great of a risk if she's on the pill (I am and my boyfriend doesn't wear a condom, doesn't pull out, and I've never been pregnant), whatever makes you most comfortable is what you should do. You can come wherever you want to; you might want to ask her first (ex. "Can I come on you chest" etc). Typical places include the stomach, the back, the face/mouth, and chest.

  • My guy usually does it on my stomach. He's kind enough to bring me a warm washcloth.

    Pulling out is still a good idea even if she is on the pill. jubilee is correct. Why take any extra chances?

    • Thanks 4 the advice. We finally did it last night and I finished on her stomach. She was ok with it, so it's all good.

    • Thank you too! I'm glad that it worked out well.

Most Helpful Guys

  • DO NOT CUM INSIDE HER!

    Even if she's on the pill. The chances are still there, do NOT risk it.

    Ok now that that's said ... come wherever you like. Depending on the openness of your relationship it can be just about anywhere. Stomach and lower back are the standard "landing zones" ... but you can mix it up and try the breasts, face, mouth ...etc etc. Just be sure it's "ok" with her (or not haha)

  • my girlfriend is on the pill to and when I do her ill pull out and it depends on like what position were in but most of the time ill go on her stomach or back and if she's on top ill just go on my own stomach. but if you go on her make sure you get a rag or I use baby wipes and they work GRRRREAT. but just see where she won't mind you goin

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  • The stomache or the back (if you're hitting it from the back) is fine. The best thing to do would be to ask her her preferance. Some girls even like to finish their man off orally.

  • Like others have said, just do it on her tummy. It's going to get on me when you you pull out, so no big deal.

  • If you have sex without a condom its unsafe.

    Do you not realize how this.

    Get your head on straight ! ! !

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