Who had their sexual orientation/identity figured out during puberty vs later on in life?

[GMegg]

I thought my attraction to women was just a phase. I was even married to a man, until the past 3 years I went through some very effective counseling and became confident in discovering I'm lesbian (subsequently divorcing my husband earlier this year).

[311WasAnInsideJam]

Puberty was when I noticed how much I enjoyed the female form, as all my friends were starting to fill out. I had boys who were into me just because I was an early bloomer, but I didn't return the interest. Too busy checking out the same girls the boys were.

[sazzybyt]

I lost my virginity to a girl friend, my bff, (age 13) while we were talking/pondering about what a penis would feel like. I was pretty solid in my bisexuality from that point on.

[GMegg]

What age?

[sazzybyt]

We were both 13.

[madhatters4]

i've never had any questions or doubt regarding my heterosexuality.

[lightbulb27]

puberty or before. I liked girls early, attracted in puberty. never any question. guys... disgusting...:)

I'm fascinated by how this identity thing works... one wonders how soon it starts...

[Pamina]

I never really went through any actual questioning phase.

[Amine0214577]

Everyone question their sexuality at some point men or women, don't lie.

[Pamina]

@Amine0214577 Fuck off, you don't know.

[Pamina]

@Amine0214577 *don't know me

[Kaneki05]

Legit since i was born.
Kissed a girl at 3, never kissed a guy and i've been wanting a girlfriend/sex with a girl since i was 8 when i learned what sex was.

Never been confused or anything i honestly have no clue how people can go thou so many years without figuring out if they are gay or not

[TonyMetal86]

My sexual identity is straight to hell...
I think that you were kidnapped by the aliens who did some tests on you and turned you into a lezzie 🤣

[Ripper_E]

When I was going through puberty I thought I was in part attracted to men as well as women. However as time progressed I had no attraction to men at all. I love women.

[Massageman]

Sex is determined before birth regardless of what you believe you are afterwards.

[genericname85]

to me there wasn't ever a question. i just liked girls. my parents were even the type or parents who would give me hotwheels and barbies to play with but still to me, gender was always very clear.

[massb]

You can be bi aswell

[mrkdvsn]

I knew I was a heterosexual boy from as early as I can remember. There was never any alternative to that. Nothing else existed if you were a boy.

[anarkissd]

Mine was a hot mess all through puberty.

[Anonymous]

There was never any doubt.

[Anonymous]

HAHAHAH you dumb bitch

your shit was figured out when you were born
YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE BORN WITH

man or women
that simple
YOUR FEELINGS DO NOT MATTER

GOD is above the dome
so if you want to be lesbian ok enjoy the few years

and then when you die get roasted and burn
enjoy lol

dumb ass

[Anonymous]

how do you know you're not just bi