Why are all the hot guys gay? can someone straight become gay?

i met a really hot guy tonight he was like the best looking male I've ever seen, his behavior and style seemed masculine to me, but after talking he mentioned how he is with his boyfriend and I was like whyyyyyyyyyyy?! argh! why are all the hot men gay?
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  • Gay men tend to be very promiscuous. They WANT sex, and since other gay men want sex too, sex is much easier to get. So, they can afford to be more shallow about looks. That puts pressure on gay men to look their best, because looks are the main thing that determines how much sex they're going to get.

    Straight guys have to do a lot more than just show up and look good to get sex, so they don't have all the time and money to spend making themselves look good; they have to do all of the relationship stuff, plan dates, pay for them, call the girl, text the girl, etc. Girls want many things besides just sex, so straight guys have to be well-rounded. Thus, their own appearance isn't their #1 priority.

  • Men are too worried thinking about girls to take care of themselves, ironically. Gay guys don't have that problem, plus with a little help from stereotypes they spend more time trying to look good.

    Also they understand that for guys looks matters, so they have to either look femenine or like what a cool guy would look to other males, which happen to be the type of guys a socially conditioned girl would find attractive at least in a physical way. They try to match that in order to get the type of attention they are after.

    • omg you hit the hammer on the nail! makes sense! he was totally a 'cool guy' lol! arghh only if he was straight

    • Thanks! I never get best answers, funny it happened to be a gay thing

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  • just because you met one gay man that was hot doesn't mean that all hot men are gay. Most gay guys knows how to put their best foot forward and are really into taking care of themselves. I have been a f**hag since I was 8 years old and always hung around gay guys so maybe that's why I'm not into a guy that always looks well put together. I think most girls are attracted to a man that is into his appearence and that's why so many are drawn to gay guys.

    I don't think you go from being straight to gay or being gay to straight, I think you know you are attracted to the same sex, you might not want to admit it cause you are afriad of what your family or friends will say.

    • figure of speech.

    • what is a figure of speech?

    • an expression, that shouldn't be taken literally word for word as statistical/scientific evidence. just cause I used an expression that why are all the hot guys gay, you shouldn't read into it and take it as a scientific claim on the male population. or simply to say...'DONT QUOTE ME ON IT'

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  • Just about every gay guy is hot because unlike straight men they are not needy and pervy towards women.

    I know friends of mine that as soon as they find a guy they THINK is not pervy, needy, or creepy suddenly they think he's hot.

    Gay guys cannot be any of those things.

    Which automatically makes them hot.

    • i see your point, but in my case I just think in terms of looks and style they are hot, and even physique features like the guy I saw tonight, tall, muscles, jaw lines, nice skin, sexy deep eyes, and bam he's gay.

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  • That's what my friend and I always say to girls that approach us that we're not interested in lol

    So there's that...

    • so you're gay?

    • Nope but dumb girls think I am.

    • they probably say that to you to give a hint they're not interested...so there's that :O

  • Because gay men are trying to appeal to other men, hence put a much higher proportion of their effort into appearance then straight men do.

    If women put out as fast as gay men did when a guy was decent looking, straight guys would look that good too.

    As one of the anon women said, you probably also respond to the fact they don't care whether you find them interesting at all.

  • i agree! its so funny how this is true

  • I'm fairly 'hot' and I'm not gay.

    I said fairly, I don't have the bag of chips too

    • and your point?!

    • oh geez point being, not all attractive guys are gay, and not all gay guys are attractive.

    • good point. lol I'm still searching for mr. right =/

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  • lmao. you must be joking. so many hot guys are blissfully STRAIGHT! :)

    • YESSSSS I was looking for some positive girl comments :P reading the 2 above I was like COME ON REALLY? NOT 1?

    • hahaha :D

    • haha I didn't mean to bash straight guys, but lately with me being single, all the hot guys I'm noticing are gay =/ I have yet to meet my dream man who is straight

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  • Maybe fall for a rugged looking man as opposed to a pretty boy?

    • i don't like the pretty ones or metrosexual ones, just the ones that look masculine but sexual orientation ends up being gay thanks to my bad luck. lol I'm single and its just hard to find a straight guy these days =/

    • Sigh..I suppose..not like that here...er...at least I don't think so...o.O

  • Mhm

  • My mom told me this years ago.

  • Funny that I've only met 3 gay guys who where out of the closet in my whole life, yet every guy your meeting is apparently gay. You wouldn't happen to be generalizing 3.5 billion males based off one experience now would you?

    Orrrr do we gotta start wearing --> link

    • my town does have a large gay population