Why can't I feel anything whenever my boyfriend sucks on my breast?

he likes to do it a lot but I can't even feel anything. I only get the visual. and frankly if I were to close my eyes I wouldn't even know he was there. it kind of sucks because it seems like it should feel awesome. sometimes he bits the nipple, I can feel that but nothing else.. i don't mind that he does it, because he really likes to and I like the moment. but why can't I feel anything ? :(
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Most Helpful Guy

  • I interpret that what you are saying is that there is NO sense of touch from contact there unless it is strong or sharp, like your boyfriend actually biting. That is not a case of needing to relax or getting used to it. It appears there is actually a neurological disconnect, meaning nerve messages from the location are blocked or broken. The biting may cause strong enough nerve blasts to get past the problem, or may use other paths. (Different sensations use different paths or signals even though from the same location.) Different things can cause that. The one that comes to mind as the most common is diabetes, though that is usually connected to problems with the extremities: fingers and feet. It can get so bad that people develop sores on the bottom of their feet and do not know about them until they develop into open wounds/abscesses. I don't think that is your problem, though, because as I said it is usually extremities.

    Women who have breast reductions often suffer what you are describing because the nerves were damaged during the repositioning of the nipple on the breast. Since you do not mention surgery, I assume this is not the case with you.

    There is a small chance it could be an indicator of something that would become more serious than loss of sexual pleasure, though I would say chances are 99% that nothing drastic will come of it.

    Best suggestion, as for many problems, is to see a doctor. If your family doctor blows it off as nothing to worry about without giving a good cause for it, you should then see a specialist, like a neurologist. I say that not because there is a big danger, but because so often there are explanations that can give solutions to help, but family doctors are trying to keep up with more general things and often do not know enough about special cases.

    Take some time to learn about your ability to sense touch on your breasts by touching, stroking, squeezing, etc. them, including the areolas and nipples, then hit your doctor up for an answer.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Some women just have insensitive nipples... Maybe if you tried relaxing a bit more and tried having him concentrate on other areas of your body first, like kissing and nibbling on your neck, your earlobes, your collarbone, your shoulders, your stomach, etc. and then slowly working his way back to your nipples that might turn you on.

    Have him kiss, lick, swirl his tongue around, suck and nibble for awhile... I enjoy it so much when my boyfriend sucks on my breasts.

  • I can get off from it, but I find you really have to relax in order to feel it sexually.

    Don't feel bad about it though, everyone is different. & it will come in hand if you plan on breastfeeding down the road ...

  • You aren't turned on enough when he starts doing it.

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  • maybe they are too large, I have the same problem too.