Why can't I get pleasure from cowgirl position?

It seems like every time I ride cowgirl, I can't really climax or get pleasure from it. I finally managed to figure out reverse cowgirl and get some pleasure from it. Is there any way I can climax from cowgirl? Any techniques? Thanks!
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  • My wife had trouble with this too, until we figured out the Reverse Cowgirl, with me stitting up straight. This works best on a good couch, for comfort and room. My wife will mount me, stradling my legs with hers on the outside, and place her hands on my chest or shoulders for support. Then she will just go to town (this position is really more for her than me). She really loses her mind if I can reach around her to play with her clit while she is riding me. I can always tell when she's ready to pop - because she take me all the way down to the balls. I think it helps if the girl has a big ass for this position (for the bounce), but yeah, Dee has trouble with the regular cowgirl. We almost never go for this anymore because of that.

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  • Next time you're on top, have him inside of you only long enough for his penis to get wet from your juices. Rise up and let him fall out, then lower yourself down so that his penis is against your clit. Grind or slid your clit against his erection until you cum. He may or may not come from this, but it makes for a nice variation to enjoy for you. My wife can come from the cowgirl position by moving her hips fron to back, but it takes her some time for that to happen, so I make sure she does the grind thing first. Frankly speaking she uses my erection to masturbate.

    Hope this helps.

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  • Same here.. I discovered I'm not going to enjoy it.. So I put ALL of my attention towards him enjoying it.. Ask him to be more involved more vocal in turning you on. Ask him to stimulate a bit from the bottom. This won't amplify the feeling all that much but it does make it a little more fun since you can't get off to cowgirl.

    Other ways to do cowgirl:

    Flat feet (baseball catcher, up and down movement)

    Angle your hips towards his fit, Slanted up and down motions)

    If neither of these work. I'm sorry the position is a bust for you like it is for me. :-/

  • I can't either. Maybe im lazy as fuck but it does nothing for me. I cum hardest through missionary and doggy. But i never could cum while im on top, maybe i can cum through reverse cowgirl but not front ride

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  • You have a hypodilated clitoral hood and you need to eat more string beans, celery, legumes (beans and chickpeas and so on) so the blood gets flowing there. Also take a hot shower every day to help boost your hormonal levels.