Why did he grope me while drunk?

A bunch of friends went out last night and I was driving so I didn't drink any. My guy friend got drunk though and then he was all over me. He danced on me and I could feel he was aroused. And he leaned on me on the walk back to the car and then sat behind me and gave me a massage the whole ride back. I'm confused because we're not even close friends and neither of us are the type to just hook up with people. What the heck?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • When people get drunk they are usually not in their sane mind but it also could be that in his subconcious or who knows in his right mind he wanted you so when he was drunk he reflected those feelings.Kick the a**hole as soon as possible out of your life, whether drunk or not he had not right to do so. Incase, you want to give him a second chance, if you really do trust him then alright give, but make sure the next time you're with him you are never alone.

    • Oh he's harmless lol. I probably will avoid him when he's drunk from now on, but I'm fine being alone with him sober. Thanks for your answer!

    • Ok lol, I am sorry! I was just saying as precaution and meant when he's drunk you shouldn't be alone with him.

  • Because he wanted to have sex with you. Remember true feelings come out when people are drunk. But don't think that he wants to be with you or anything he could just want sex. Guys will hook up with almost anyone when they are really drunk. I learned it the hard way. I would confront and question him about it and don't be surprised if he acts like he does not remember. He may actually not remember the events of that night but I am sure he does so ask him.

  • Alcohol effect. Maybe he likes you, but alcohol gave him the courage to show it to you.

Most Helpful Guys

  • He's into you, and was hoping for a positive response.

    In vino veritas.

  • He was drunk and trying, way too hard ill add, to get it in

    • That's unlike him lol.. he's usually so pro abstinence. It sure seemed like he was doing what you said though.

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  • He was being a drunk friend. People do things they don't normally do when drunk

  • Drunkeness lowers inhibitions.

  • I would confront him and if you don't like his response then avoid him