Why did he want me to leave my underwear on?

We've had sex before but tonight after I gave him head and he went to have sex with me he told me to leave my underwear on when I went to take them off. I asked him why and he said he wanted to do it now. It caught me off guard. Why not wait .1 seconds for me to take them off? Or am I thinking too much into it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Maybe he has a fetish for girls leaving their underwear on during sex. I have a fetish for girls keeping their high heels on during sex. If you feel uncomfortable (physically) wearing them while having sex, try talking to him about it. Tell him that your underwear presses hard on your hips or something when you move around, and because of that, you can't enjoy sex to the full extent. If he is a decent man, and cares about you, he should let you take them off.

    • It doesn't bother me, it just caught me off guarded and made me wonder if there was something wrong with me lol. We've had sex a lot of times before but this was the first time.

    • Maybe he just wanted to experiment (try something different). It's always good to try something different every once in a while to keep things interesting. Plus, you might find something that turns you on even more, or feels better. If it doesn't hurt, just go along with it.

  • I was afraid of vaginas until age 17, no joke. They were so intimidating to me that they'd sometimes keep me from achieving necessary erection. He might still be getting used to a woman's body, every guy is more comfortable with his own private parts before that of another person. Don't over think it, us guys are just pu$$ies.

    • I don't think so. He's 23 and is pretty popular with the ladies.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Keeping the underwear is an allusion to a hot steamy quicky. You want each other so much that there is no time to take off your underwear. Sometimes people even like to stay fully clothed.

    It is just one more way to get turned on. He wanted to have hot passionate sex with you. That's all. So don't worry about it :)

  • He just probably thought it would be hot to just pull them aside and f*ck you! You see it in p*rno stuff.

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  • It's a fetish. I'm the same
    Ladies underwear are very sexy.
    During the act I love how they look and feel when going down on a girl and seeing her jucies soak through them. 😍

  • I have a panty fetish. I also love to feel the panties as my member slides in and out of her vagina. The wetness of the panties is an additional turn on. Leaving panties on during sex to me is very hot. It's sluttier in a ways as well.

  • So you did the deed with them on? Doing it around the underwear once in a while can be pretty sexy!

  • He wanted you NOW and did not want to wait another second.

  • sometimes people like to leave somethings up to their imagination. I bet it has nothing to do with you. when your in the moment it doesn't matter whether the underwear is on or off.

  • was it a thong/ gstring? some guys like the visual, my ex did.

    • Yea it was! I normally wear one but I don't think I've worn this pair around him before so maybe. Thanks!

    • My guy loves my panties. He likes for me to keep them on a lot.

  • maybe your vagina smelled bad that night? or maybe he's disturbed by the way it looks and just didn't say anything the first time you did it. Or maybe he just wanted a quickie

    • I just took a shower and we've had sex probably 20 times...