Girls, Why did she get mad at me when I cum on her face?

[Anonymous]

Ik its werid but me and this girl been dating only for a month and I kept pressuring her to suck my penis and she did for her first time and she told me not to cum in or out so I accidentally did on her face when I pulled out a ot landed on her hair and forehead and part in the face and now she' mad at me and idek if the relationship is going to keep going like she just really ignoring and we're a couple and we acting like we're not even dating no more idek what to say I just wish I could go back and fix all the mess up things between us.

[AwesomeCookie]

Clearly you're young and inexperienced. You disregarded her feelings by pressuring her and you couldn't handle the situation properly. Women expect respect when doing such acts, & that you'd honor what you said.
You should apologize to her, ask her to speak to you about the situation. There's no shame in letting her know it wasn't intentional. If she is mature enough she'd understand... But I don't know if either of you are really "mature" enough.
Sexual intimacy should be explored with your partner, without shame. That's the only way you really truly will understand each other sexually. & some acts, like cumming on a woman's face can simply just feel degrading.

[Asker]

Well she's still a virgin we haven't went all the way yet but I don't want to i just want to say sorry and let her forgive me for the dumb things I've done.

[AwesomeCookie]

Surely saying sorry is the start.

[Asker]

Well before I get yell threw text I just want to say when we finish i said sorry it was an accident and she slap me I don't think it was necessary for that...

[AwesomeCookie]

You don't apologize through text for such a thing. Again, not mature enough to be doing such things and not able to handle the repercussions properly. If she felt the need to slap you then yeah, unintentional or not, it made her feel you highly disrespected her. No one deserves to be physically slapped ever in my opinion. Abuse is childish and unruly. Anyway, if you're not going to apologize in person and be sincere then move on. If you do apologize, I'd hope you'd express your dislike of her behavior through the mistake you caused. You'll hear it now, years from now, when you're old and gray, communication is key to any relationship.

[Moonchild714]

So you want to let her forgive you? That's not you're call, you don't have a say in her forgiving. So far you haven't made any attempts to warrant forgiveness. Take this as a learning experience and grow from it!!! You are not ready for a true Relationship!!!

[AwesomeCookie]

That's great to get an update. Best of luck to you!

[Moonchild714]

First problem you pressured her to give you a blowjob, and then you couldn't even honor her one request about it!!! You're a selfish douchebag!!! You don't pressure a human to do anything, especially Sexual things... I feel bad for her giving in when you kept showing her you don't care about her feelings...

[Asker]

But I did care about her...

[Moonchild714]

Obviously you didn't otherwise you wouldn't have done everything you did?

[shelbyr1721]

Well.. you pressured her to give you a blowjob and then didn’t abide by the one thing she told you she didn’t want to happen. I mean if it’s an accident it’s an accident, and I think you should try telling that to her and apologizing if you haven’t already. Either way, I think this probably wouldn’t have been as much of a mess if you didn’t pressure her to do it in the first place. Even if she gives in, she still may have not been okay with doing it. If that’s the case, and you came on her face after she told you she didn’t want you to, then she’s probably feeling really disrespected and used right now. That’s probably why she’s mad

[Asker]

Ik what I did in the past is bad but I'm willing to learn from my mistakes

[shelbyr1721]

Well that’s really wonderful 😊 I wish you both the best

[lilaqua]

It’s not exactly pleasant to have cum on your face.

[PrincessProtection]

Feel better for saying that?

[Asker]

Well I didn't have someone to talk to about if I say it to my friends they'll just be happy for me and I don't want that she gets exposed for my bad deeds I love her... And ik she loves me...

[Repa33]

Cause you pressured her itno something she didn't want to and then blatantly ignored what she wanted and did something she told you not to

[RSV10]

pressuring her to suck your dick 😐 thats not ok dude.

[Anonymous]

you need to stop watching so much porn

[Asker]

Well It was an accident... but now she forgive me and I'm happy and will learn from my mistake

[Anonymous]

Lol what prude.

[Anonymous]

Grow up and start respecting other people. You don't pressure people into doing things they don't really want to do, and you make sure to respect their limits (in this case do not cum in or on her). Of course she's mad you're a total asshole who only care about yourself and have no respect for her, her limits and her wishes.

[Asker]

I do respect her and I love her it was an accident... I couldn't control it...