Why didn't he want me to give him a blow job?

[shannonb]

Why didn't he want me to go down on him? What does this all mean?Why did he move my hand away? What's going through this guys head? Okay my guy friend and i, we've been hanging out a lot lately. So last night we were at a friends house with 3 other people and somehow we ended up in the bedroom alone. But we have not kissed. Yeah ended up with him feeling me up and my shirt and bra pulled down. He also tried to put his hand in my pants but I didn't let him. But a lot of the time was also spent with me sucking his fingers in a rather sexual way. Its like I gave his fingers a bj and I couldve sworn he was testing my gag reflex. It was like he was having a mini orgy and he was all like, "yeah deep". I figured he wanted a real bj so I decided to go for that but as soon as I touched the button on his pants he moved my hand away and nothing much happened after that. What happened here? Did I do something wrong? Also, what's with the finger sucking thing? Thanks so much!

[cmitch]

Nothing wrong I don't think. Believe it or not, contrary to popular belief, there is emotions attached to guys. I don't know what happened in this particular case, maybe he was embarrassed about something (not being cut) or he want it to be just he two of you, who knows. but it doesn't seem like you did anything wrong. On the other hand, I would have been all over you. So I'm not sure. Ask him, with guys the direct rout is always best.

[shannonb]

Thanks! what should I say to him?

[cmitch]

Most guys only really comprehend the direct approach. So directly ask him "why didn't you want me to go down on you" I gaurentee, whether I'm right or wrong about my guess as to why, he gives you an honest answer. It will take him so by surprise, all he will be able to do is tell you the truth,

[Dan2287]

Nothing wrong I don't think. Believe it or not, contrary to popular belief, there is emotions attached to guys. I don't know what happened in this particular case, maybe he was embarrassed about something (not being cut) or he want it to be just he two of you, who knows. but it doesn't seem like you did anything wrong. On the other hand, I would have been all over you. So I'm not sure. Ask him, with guys the direct rout is always best.

[woodsman]

I have no idea other than perhaps he had a confidence problem about the size of his penis and did not want you to see it. I can't think of any other reason.

[Anonymous]

Lol it happens, maybe he jizzed hin his pants already..